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My self-summary
9-2016 Update: We are buying a house in New Orleans and will split our time between there and Dallas.

I am married to PoisonKitty and we are open. I thought I should get that out of the way first. Save me your judgment on open or poly relationships. I don't believe in monogamy. If you do, good for you.

I'm a pretty complicated person who lives an AMAZING life that is extremely well balanced and never boring.

I am rather involved in the local Burning Man community and Dallas underground music scene thanks to my awesome campmates. I'm definitely not a hippie, but being a Burner has become a lifestyle for me. You'll see several pics from our wedding. That is because it was a complete "burn," except for not having an effigy. We did pyro art instead. But, this is the sort of thing we do with our lives on a regular basis.

What I am Looking For
I'm married to a vegan and I am a foodie. It would be nice to have an omnivore friend to try out new/different restaurants that have no vegan offerings. Bonus if you also love wine!

My preference is to find someone who already has experience with open or poly relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
I am living life to the fullest each and everyday. I have made my mark professionally speaking; I have raised a daughter, and now it is my turn to live my life for me. I am doing just that and having a blast with my husband and my campmates.
I’m really good at
Planning and Organizing events.
The first things people usually notice about me
That they usually can't hear me when I speak and when they DO hear me, I'm very direct.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love anything by Anne Rice...until this latest Lestat book.
Godfather, Amadeus, Old School, Holy Grail
Very varied taste in music...anything from Louis Armstrong to NIN to Peaches.
I love trying new food and finding new restaurants.
Six things I could never do without
Unfortunately, through tragic events--like a house fire --I've learned that there is nothing you can't live without as far as "things" go. The only thing that matters to me is my family and that includes my extended family that I've built here in Dallas.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why OKC keeps matching me with heart-attack-victims-waiting-to-happen looking men and new recipes.

I love to cook and am married to a vegan, so I am always looking for ways to 'veganize' recipes.
On a typical Friday night I am
On any given night, I have 10+ events/activities to choose from....mostly related to the arts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I find bi guys pretty hot.
You should message me if
You should message me if you like "real" people and can handle a very direct and sometimes challenging personality and aren't freaked out by alternative life styles. Oh! and if you don't wear cowboy hats.
The two of us