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My self-summary
Hi ladies and other creatures!
I was born and raised in Brooklyn and Queens. Italian American by heritage,which my father was such a staunch defender of. I'm pensive,sarcastic,compassionate and my brain is always working-which makes sleeping a pain sometimes. Oh, and my friends think I'm nuts because I love height on a woman.
I'm doin' time on planet Earth-any fellow inmates wish to make the time more bearable,let me know.I spend my life trying to make it more bearable. Partly by laughing at the sideshow and partly by fighting it when I can. I'm incredibly loyal,communicative,pensive,argumentative and passionate.And HONEST above all things-TO A FAULT,SOMETIMES. That makes me very difficult for a lot of people to deal with. But if you're willing to take the good with the bad,I'm told I can be an incredible friend. I try really hard when I care about someone-maybe TOO hard.
I welcome all of you who walk to your own drum and refuse to be either a wolf or a sheep. Live by your heart and mind,not the law of gravity. Have no political party,have a personal ethical agenda to try-even if you fail,which you probably will-to Make Things Better,whatever that means in this context.As Kevin Smith so brilliantly said in "Dogma"-probably the best film ever made about religion-don't have a belief,have an IDEA.
I CAN be too serious sometimes. And I do have a temper because of my passion.(Not a violent one-although I HAVE been known to attack the occasional inanimate object.) But when I care about someone,I'm always there for them.
I guess you can say I like rehabilitating the scarred hearts of angels. I'm pretty good at it,too.
So maybe together-we can be more then the sum of our parts.
Basically-I'm looking for a Princess Fiona to my Shrek. That didn't work out too badly, did it?
What I’m doing with my life
I spent a lot of years (don't ask) keeping my father alive from his prostate cancer after my brothers all ran for thier lives.As a result,took me awhile to find out what I wanted to do with my life.( I don't say what I want to be when I grow up-I have no intention of ever doing that.......LOL)
I've been stuck in limbo as a second year graduate student in pure mathematics at the Graduate Center of the City University of New York for several years following my father's death.After premed, chemistry,physical chemistry and biochemistry,I was seduced into pure mathematics and never looked back. Mathematicians are sorcerers. But instead of tea leaves,toadstools,phoenix feathers,polyjuice potions and eye of newt, we conjure with Lebesgue measures,noncommutative rings, differentible manifolds, Fourier transforms, deformation algebras and power series.We read the Book of Nature and if we ask it questions correctly, it shares the most awesome of secrets with us.
Don't call me a nerd. I'm a geek. Nerds by definition are antisocial,misanthropic personalities who are scared to death of girls for life and dream of the rest of humankind becoming extinct and inheriting the Earth with other geeks who will eternally play and create role playing games. Geeks are normal in every obvious way-they talk about the Mets and how bad their pitching is, how crappy their apartments is and how they wish they could afford that awesome new Cadillac-until you make the mistake of telling them you hate math. Then they start talking your ear off about noncommutative ring theory and get giddy about their research,trying in a misguided way to convert you to their private religion.
After my father passed and the economy blew up, I took an indefinite leave of absence to keep my mother alive as long as I can. Pending the outcome of the 2012 election and whether or not the middle class survives, I hope to return to my studies next year. If I don't, I could very well die with an incomplete career. Hoping not and planning to fight for it. Once I complete my master's degree, I still plan to begin applying to PHD programs-primarily Columbia,Princeton and NYU- and work for a year at least as a private tutor or adjunct lecturer. (I'm REALLY hoping to begin a successful tutoring business while I'm on hiatus. Working on a few things to make that happen. I'll keep them under my hat until one of them bears fruit. ) I keep tripping over my life-this will be my last chance. Hopefully, I'll make some much needed cash,do some research and hopefully be published and come with a plan for someone in poor health to attack a PHD program intelligently. I was hoping to begin my first research on additive number theory based on the work of our resident number theory guru,Melvyn Nathanson. and attend the advanced topology course of Dennis Sullivan and hoping I can make my mark there. But Dr. Nathanson has stopped emailing me invitations to his seminar. I may have to drop by his office as physical evidence I haven't died and I'm still interested in working with him-if he's willing.
I doubt Dr. Sullivan even remembers my name. Oh well,I'll have to remind him.................
I also have a blog (doesn't everyone these days?)where I foam at the mouth at the universe whenever I find the time.I hope to begin keeping a running journal in it when I begin preparing for my master's exams.
I’m really good at
I'm usually very good at telling when people are lying. It's a curse. I can't tell WHY they're lying,but I'm pretty good at telling when they are.I'm also a natural when it comes to abstract algebra. It has a clean beauty that never ceases to fascinate me. I'm a good teacher,too-I got that from my Dad. I'm probably best at being a friend-particularly to beautiful women,who are usually treated by other men like trophies and not people. I don't talk to them like men usually do-I don't grease them,sweet talk them or say whatever I need to to get them into bed. I talk to them like I talk to everyone else. Sure,I WANT things to work out-but I don't play them like violins. Most of the time,they sense this.They don't always like it-but they usually respect it.
The first things people usually notice about me
My brute, sometimes callous honesty. What you see is what you get. I'm the world's worst liar. And I don't fear consequences. That's a long,hard,sometimes dangerous road for anyone to walk. But I made my peace with it long ago. Sometimes you get the bear and sometimes the bear eats part of your liver.And sometimes you get an angel who's patient enough to walk with you.You always know exactly where you stand with me. And when I tell someone I'm here for them-I don't have some secret agenda. I mean it. Doesn't that count for something?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
HUGE movie fan-some of my favorite all time: "Unforgiven","Minority Report", "Do The Right Thing", "Crimes and Misdemeanors",the original "Shrek"(which has my vote for best animated film of all time) ,"Saving Private Ryan", "Master And Commander:The Far Side Of The World", the original "Superman" directed by Richard Donner-oh,too many to name.

Television?Yeah,believe it or not,I do watch some. Not much,but some. Since "Battlestar Galactica" ended on Sci-Fi, I don't really have a "MUST WATCH." I still miss FARSCAPE. I hope people rediscover it's riches someday.
DR.WHO has slowly grown on me-the series' cosmic hutzpah and fearlessness to go places no other series would dare,with both creativity and daring,HAS to grow on you. And let's face it-there's something about a godlike immortal who's dedicated his life and infinite resources to helping people all over creation-regardless of cost-that you just have to root for.
Oh,I'm sorry-I DO have one "Must Watch". "Real Time With Bill Maher" on HBO-the source for all comic commentary for the thinking man since the passing of the great George Carlin. I can't believe he's been gone for 4 years. I fear no one will ever make me laugh like that again. Maher's the closest we got right now.

Oh,and I religiously watch MSNBC and Current's left-leaning news. I miss Kieth Olbermann- damn it, Kieth, can't you work with ANYBODY?!? Until he returns, Rachael Maddow and Cenk Ugar will do nicely. One day, many years from now,they're going to realize what a damn good journalist Maddow is and stop wishing death on her for daring to be liberal.

Other interests:movies,science fiction,and comic books. YES,superhero comic books,I still love them after all these years. My dad brought me home a HULK comic book when I was 6 years old and I never looked back. I once had a sizeable collection(8 boxes). They were sacrificed like so much else in the wake of my father's death 2 years ago. But I still read them online and keep up with my favorites. I miss old time Vertigo,like Alan Moore's SWAMP THING and Niel Gaimain's SANDMAN.The recent deluge of live-action and animated superhero movies and series has left me with mixed feelings. Sometimes the filmmakers/animators "get it"-like with THE DARK KNIGHT,the first IRON MAN film,Cartoon Network's JUSTICE LEAGUE series back in the day and THE INCREDIBLE HULK, and of course, Joss Whedon's Magum Opus THE AVENGERS-and sometimes they make crap like the Fantastic Four movies-which I'm trying to forget. And of course,SMALLVILLE,which started with a terrific concept,has been on way too long and has been VERY inconsistent in quality. (Then again,if it had ended earlier,we wouldn't have seen live-action versions of The Legion of Superheroes or Doomsday-both of which had an incredible factor of coolness..........)
Books?Oh,can't even start-WAY too many to mention. I WILL say though I probably would have gotten into an Ivy League school instead of Queens College of CUNY if I hadn't discovered J.R.R. Tolkien my junior year in high school. I also probably should mention as general favorites Ursula Le Guin, Robert Silverberg,Greg Bear, David Brin and Alice Sheldon a.k.a James Tiptree Jr.-who met such a tragic end imposed on her by society's complete lack of courage with dealing with the terminally ill. Look it up-it'll break your heart and make you think............
On a lighter note-I'm a huge fan of animation,both the classic kind such as Warner Brothers Looney Tunes cartoons(Bugs,Daffy and the whole zoo),Tex Avery's matchlessly hilarious cartoons, Disney classics(Bambi,The Jungle Book) as well as the recent renissance of animation that's brought us so many awesome moments,from which I'll just name a few of the best: the aforementioned "Shrek","The Lion King","Tarzan",the absolutely hilarious "The Emperor's New Groove"(the original movie,not the incredibly lame kiddie tv show), "Hercules", "The Adventures of Sinbad". Animation is a joy forever,one I'm glad to share with any girl with a hot cup of tea on a cold, rainy night. But I'm not above partying all night in Brooklyn or the Villiage if she's that type of girl. Far be it from me to stand in the way of her enjoying her life-quite the contrary,I want to help her with that. : )
The six things I could never do without
The Internet.
Green Tea.
Baked Nacho Cheese Doritos (well,once a month).
The Rachel Maadow Show (an hour of sanity in an insane world) .
My sight. (The most important for last.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
EVERYTHING.No,seriously-EVERYTHING,you name it. But what probably takes top billing in my mind is the feeling of getting old,which no one should feel until they're 5 years from collecting social security.
On a typical Friday night I am
Studying or sleeping. Now you know why I'm here........LOL Any ladies want to help me change that-I seem to be stuck in a rut the last few years..........?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I LOVE NEWBORN KITTENS! AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW! (God,that sounded even wussier then I thought it would........)
You should message me if
Let's begin with the negatives.You SHOULDN'T message me (for dating) if:
-You're a guy. (DUH.)
-You're racist,homophobic or ultra-conservative politically.That shouldn't be too hard-the three usually can be found in the same individuals. ESPECIALLY if you define a terrorist as a Muslim or Middle Eastern.
-You ascribe to some form of the following statement: "Right and wrong is in the eye of the beholder." My advice to anyone dating someone like that reading this:DON'T SIGN ANYTHING THEY GIVE YOU.
-If your response to a personal question is "None of your buisness." or any of it's equivalents.
You SHOULD message me if:
-You're at least 5'7. Over 5'10' and you don't mind guys somewhat shorter then you is REALLY impressive.(Disclaimer:This is a preference,not a deal breaker.Short girls apply,by all means.)
-You're a woman with a recently broken heart looking for someone to help it heal.
-You're a woman tired of being lied to and you're fed up enough to have a completely honest guy,no matter what.
-You're a smart woman who's looking for an intellectual kindred spirit.
And one last favor:If you're not interested and I message you,please message me back and tell me so.It is SO rude to just be ignored.