I am not especially lonely, and do OK being single, but I am a normal guy- we do need what a woman offers (not just the physical aspect, but that's part of it, obviously), so here I am. I suppose I am selective- I date occasionally if I feel there is a real connection, but haven't found the lady who sparks that feeling that I can't wait until the next time we meet. I hope that happens in the near future, but am willing to wait for Ms Right- are your the one? It's more difficult, I know, as a smoker, but I am overly respectful and hope to get rid of the habit sooner rather than (too) later. If you find me interesting, etc, I'd love to hear from you. If I simply don't see a real chance we'd be compatible- I won't respond- nothing personal, I'm just being honest and realistic.
There's my start- Matt