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My self-summary
I am focusing more on living in the now, while still preparing for the future. I am open to what life brings me! Surprise me!

I am mesmerized by:
Quiet people. They have some kind of inner strength that I admire.
Fingers. Especially graceful ones.

Things I like:
Hanging out with someone, just enjoying their company, talking or not.
Real eyebrows.
Foreign languages. I lam currently studying French and speak pretty good Spanish and Korean. I would like to learn German.
Travel. Seeking out unusual places.

Things I am not really a fan of:
Pretentiousness, in any realm. Honesty and simplicity are great!
“America! Fuck yeah!” attitudes.

Things I would like to know how to do:
Cook beyond survival skills.
Sing in a way that does not alienate people.

(Updated 4/17)
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying time with my friends and dog. And learning, always learning. Working at a library. Thinking about the future while keeping my feet on the ground.
I’m really good at
Fixing things and dispensing lots of only occasionally useful knowledge.
Foreign languages. And did I say fixing things? I am seriously good at that.
The first things people usually notice about me
My usually inappropriate humor, or just my glasses.
Possibly also my charming personality. /sarcasm
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Most things by Dickens and historical fiction, travel literature, modern poetry, Shakespeare.
Shows: British TV, Netflix
Movies: Comedies, Foreign films
Music: Whatever strikes me in the moment
Food: Korean (let's get bbq!), Mexican, simple but tasty foods.
Six things I could never do without
A few close friends
Good bread, in moderation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can live in Europe some day.
What tomorrow brings.
How neat it is that the sun comes up every day. Provides a little bit of security and continuity to life, ya know?
On a typical Friday night I am
Futzing around the house. I am a very outgoing person and I love company, but I have lately learned to enjoy being at home. Even better with good friends and decent wine!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
will require tequila to find out...
You should message me if
you want to have an entertaining and pressure-free evening, you have good stories to share, or you just want to get out of the house to walk, talk, hit a museum, or see a movie. You should also message me if you like day trips.
The two of us