35 Tucson, United States
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My self-summary
I'm taken. She gots me :) If i look at your profile or like you, friends are all we could be. My gf and I might think youre really cool and want to hang out. But I dont cheat on anyone. Never have, never will.

I am a colorless green idea sleeping furiously...except when I am awake. I am a mass of contradictions, a nice guy, alternately lazy as hell or uncontrollably productive.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to figure out which fork in the road to take. Wishing I could take all of them. Enjoying the ride, not trying to win the race. Hoping to possess godlike powers at some point, but until then, I just do what I can.
I’m really good at
Cooking, conversing, being sarcastic, and other things that I am too polite to mention here. Good at loving, bad at hating, and I dance to enjoy myself. Apparently I seem to be good at loving...but I am not the one to be the judge of that.
The first things people usually notice about me
My beard. Some odd hat I am wearing. Strange tshirts. My hazel eyes. My vivid green and golden aura, if that is something you think you can see. My invisible army of zombie Jesii waiting to take out my foes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am currently trying to make my way through the 14,000 ebooks I have accumulated. Oh man there is so much stuff in there...
I am a scifi buff. I love William Gibson, Charles Stross, Vernor Vinge, Neal Stephenson, and the classics like Heinlein, Asimov, etc.
Fantasy: gotten away from the black and white dichotomy of mainstream fantasy. Really digging Glenn Cook, Stephen Erikson, and George RR Martin right now.
I also love history, anthropology, random science stuff.
Movies: scifi and comedy are my go to faves. I will watch almost anything once, and wait to regret any time lost til I have seen the damn thing through. That said I have a big collection of dystopian sci fi films. I have no idea why it appeals to me so.
I love food. I like sushi. vegetarian, mexican, thai, german, bbq, french...not big on snails, caviar, or anchovies, but i will try anything once. Water is also awesome. beers and liquors are nice. wine is ok, but I am not rarefied enough to appreciate it properly.
The six things I could never do without
the written word
interesting friends
my brain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The fate of the damn human species. My fellow humans freak me the hell out...
Where we are going. What it all means. If anything means anything. Living in the now. The far future, the deep past, and the idiotic present. I think too much sometimes, and it makes my head hurt....
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing some random thing in a random place. It tends to vary.
Trying to have a good time with cool people. Trying to please whichever person I am around.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I kissed a guy once. Cant say I really care for that much. But I had to see for sure that I didnt roll like that:)
You should message me if
You might actually want to get together and have a good time. Even if we do not hit it off, I always like to make new friends. Sometimes we all get bored and just want to hang out with nice people.