i am herpes positive. i prefer not to give herpes 101 lessons. do your own research.
if you need to learn more - i suggest this video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hG5h4QOV9OQ&feature=youtu.be
i speak of it here, now and very upfront because you then get to proceed in communicating with me - informed - rather than get wigged out about it when i tell you in person later. I am allergic to all condoms. yes, i have tried many different kinds. i am told that my candor on this topic is refreshing. Pretty alarming how many don't post upfront about it.