56 Bellingham, United States
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My self-summary
OCT 1 2016. Taking an online dating sabbatical. I will be back in a month or so. interested/intentional hello's will be responded to then.

I am passionate, dynamic, inquisitive, and resilient, at least that is what others tell me. I am playful, enthusiastic and curious.. I seek to get involved vs a one night stand or something fleeting. I love that you have time for me.

geographically i edited my profile zip code because i was getting too much interest from canada. dating canadiens is NOT an option for me. it's a passport/canada issue, not a you are a canadien thing. please don't take it personally. I live in Everson, WA

I know what i am seeking in a man. I don't know how to articulate all that is of value to me without sounding like I am ordering a banana split no cherry or a pizza extra mushrooms . I don't expect perfect. I do expect effort and I promise to meet that effort half way. I know that i value and want the good company of man in my life. what that looks like remains to be seen. this is why i am here.

I utilize my online dating profile as a sorting tool. In past relationships I've tried to let certain red flags slide, thinking that being accepting is part of being a good person. truth is - red flags are there for a reason. While my thoughts might seem like I am perhaps very particular. It does not make me unapproachable. It just helps me sort.

These are issues that have been a problem before:
men who don't cook or don't enjoy eating quality food
tv watchers

The list of what works, what i love about a man, what attracts me to a man is WAY longer than the list I've just shared.

Please ask me about it. Inquisitive men are sexy to me.

are details like the above helpful? because quite frankly i wonder if this thing is on sometimes.
What I’m doing with my life
i do life creatively. enjoying a new life path here in the pacific northwest.
I’m really good at
having my very own unique perspectives. being adorable and quirky, sharing ideas, capturing a narrative with my camera. making others laugh, feel welcome and comfortable. i make a mean salad!
The first things people usually notice about me
I am very honest and direct, my laugh is uproarious. ( GRIN ) I almost always have my camera with me. I get compliments on my long silver threaded hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read, I listen to an eclectic collection of music, I enjoy films - more of the independent variety. I am a naturalist. LOVE nature. I do not however leap over tall mountains in a single bound. I am not from around here.

food is meditative for me, foreplay actually, and very very important to my day to day and my expression. foodies are welcome - especially if you don't mind occasionally doing the dishes.

I loathe TV, sports, and fast food. these things are deal breakers for me, as are smokers and those of religious zeal.
The six things I could never do without
kisses. lots and lots of...kisses
scratch cooking
my camera.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how i treasure "coupling". how fragile i feel sometimes. i think about "why date" a a lot. i love the distraction, the reprieve, the intimacy, that someone to do things with, the sharing of ideas, networking, and that something to look forward to. I don't understand why something so very human and delightful is so elusive.
On a typical Friday night I am
grateful that there is nothing typical about me. making something fantastic for dinner. care to make something fantastic with me??
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hirsute means hairy. i like men that appreciate a natural woman. its important to me to be treated like a person, not a fetish. I enjoy the appearance of a natural male - shaven men need not apply. i find bearded man very attractive. i fantasize about a male muse
You should message me if
if you want to begin and actually follow through on something. chat is not interesting to me. I am here to connect.