MatureHirsute
56 Bellingham, United States
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My self-summary
I am passionate, dynamic, inquisitive, and resilient, at least that is what others tell me. They also say that I am playful, enthusiastic and curious.. I seek LOCAL involvement - not interested in something long distance. period. Not up for a one night stand or something fleeting either.

I love that you have time for me. ( i can't stress the importance of this )

geographically i edited my profile zip code because i was getting too much interest from canada. dating canadiens is NOT an option for me. it's a passport/canada issue, not a you are a canadien thing. please don't take it personally.

I live in Everson, WA

I know what i am seeking in a man. I don't know how to articulate all that is of value to me without sounding like i am ordering a pizza with extra mushrooms. I don't expect perfect. I do expect effort and I promise to meet that effort half way. I know that i value and want the good company of man in my life. what that looks like remains to be seen. this is why i am here.

I utilize my online dating profile as a sorting tool. In past relationships I've tried to let certain red flags slide, thinking that being accepting is part of being a good person. truth is - red flags are there for a reason. While my thoughts might seem like I am perhaps very particular. It does not make me unapproachable. It just helps me sort.

Issues that have been a problem before include: men who smoke, men who don't appreciate making and or enjoying various quality foods, men who watch tv or sports, religious men, men who are apathetic or who have nothing going on in their life, men who take - emotionally and or sexually.

I realize this list shares or examples a past of things gone wrong, this does NOT mean that men in my past ruin things for the next man in my life. i really don't focus there. Instead I like to focus on the list of what works, what i love about a man, what attracts me to a man and so on. The positives I look for are way longer than the problem list I've shared.

Please offer your perspective or questions - Inquisitive men are so sexy to me.

and just to be sure --- are details like the above helpful? because quite frankly i really wonder if this okcupid thing is on. if you share in being frustrated in dating. tell me about it
What I’m doing with my life
i do life creatively. enjoying a new life path here in the pacific northwest. as an artist i have a compulsion to create. I would never have thought that being with a like minded creative would be so important to me, but in recent years I feel differently about that ...
I’m really good at
having my very own unique perspectives. being adorable and quirky, sharing ideas, capturing a narrative with my camera. making others laugh, feel welcome and comfortable. i make a mean salad!
The first things people usually notice about me
I ask a zillion questions. I am very honest and direct, my laugh is uproarious. ( GRIN ) I almost always have my camera with me. I get compliments on my long silver threaded hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am an avid reader - I listen to an eclectic collection of music, I enjoy films - more of the independent variety. I am a naturalist. LOVE nature. I do not however leap over tall mountains in a single bound. raised in central time zone suburbia - this nature rich area is like a foreign land to me.

preparing food is meditative for me, foreplay actually, and very very important to my day to day and my expression. foodies are welcome - especially if you don't mind occasionally doing the dishes.

I loathe TV, sports, and fast food. these things are deal breakers for me, as are smokers and those of religious zeal.
The six things I could never do without
intention.
light.
kisses. lots and lots of...kisses
scratch cooking
my camera.
my family and friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how i treasure "coupling". how fragile i feel sometimes. i think about "why date" a a lot. i love the distraction, the reprieve, the intimacy, that someone to do things with, the sharing of ideas, networking, and that something to look forward to. I don't understand why something so very human and delightful is so elusive.
On a typical Friday night I am
grateful that there is nothing typical about me. making something fantastic for dinner. care to make something fantastic with me??
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hirsute means hairy. i like men that appreciate a natural woman. its important to me to be treated like a person, not a fetish. I enjoy the appearance of a natural male - shaven men need not apply. ( pretty serious about this ) i find a bearded man VERY attractive. i fantasize about a male muse. ask me about this
( wink )

additionally, i am herpes positive. i prefer not to give herpes 101 lessons. i say it here and upfront because you then get to proceed in communicating with me - informed - rather than get wigged out about it when i tell you in person later. I am allergic to all condoms.
You should message me if
if you live NEAR me, and want to begin and actually follow through on something. chat is not interesting to me. I am here to connect.
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