56Bellingham, United States
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My self-summary
i am at my very best self when i am "makng" i don't need much, like tonight the neighbor dropped off a bag of nettles, I decided to have a cook off - gorgeous night, the sun was setting, the cows were mooing, there was music --i am doing this life thing on my own, but i am sure you agree that this life thing is way more fun with another.
What I’m doing with my life
doing what i love to do
I’m really good at
i am great at many things
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile and my laugh. my long silver threaded hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i have many favorites of all of these things. food is really important to me, preparing it is a "making" thing. meditative, ceremonial, providing for ...i am particular about food. love sharing food with another. great way to spend time
Six things I could never do without
i prefer the intangibles - sunshine, blue skies ....tenderness, kisses and chocolate, and sleeping in. ...stuff like that. my must haves are my camera, my lap top and this may sound odd but FB. I do a tremendous volume of connecting and selling art on FB. I don't know what i'd do without it. i love hearth - that around the table conversation thing. good linen. a must.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how i treasure "coupling". how fragile i feel sometimes. i think about "why date" a a lot. i love the distraction, the reprieve, the intimacy, that someone to do things with, the sharing of ideas, networking, and that something to look forward to. I don't understand why something so very human and delightful is so elusive. there is a type of man that I really hunger for. i think of him as a renaissance man. I know these men around me, they are the bearded flannel shirt wearing guys that aren't always in the forefront of things. they are part geek, part nerd, part ok with their domestic feminine side, they are industrious and creative...mostly though they are to the core kind and gentle. teddy bear huggable types. many of these types of men have become my friends. I just have yet to really date this sort of person. the phrase "he gets me" is what comes to mind. we all want to be got. true??
On a typical Friday night I am
nothing about me is typical, not a single thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hirsute means hairy. i like men that appreciate a natural full figured woman. its important to me to be treated like a person, not a fetish. while i love sex. I need to have a cerebral connection that begins and lasts past chemistry. I enjoy the appearance of a natural male. that said, i find bearded man VERY attractive. shaven men need not apply. i mean this.

i am herpes positive. i prefer not to give herpes 101 lessons. do your own research.

if you need to learn more - i suggest this video -

i speak of it here, now and very upfront because you then get to proceed in communicating with me - informed - rather than get wigged out about it when i tell you in person later. I am allergic to all condoms. yes, i have tried many different kinds. i am told that my candor on this topic is refreshing. Pretty alarming how many don't post upfront about it.
You should message me if
you should message me because you read my profile and something about it had you want to say hey and because messaging me would really please me, plus, messing me is the only way to begin something...which is what we are here for. so go ahead, write to me. I promise to write back!!
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