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My self-summary
I am my very best self when i am "making" ...a true creative. i have an uproarious laugh, bright eyes and am full bodied. i am known for my tenaciousness and resiliency.

I thought I'd switch my city to explore across the border connections. I am in the US on the border. about 45 minutes to Bellingham or Vancouver

not seeing any shift here in the level of actual communications since okcupid policies shifted.
are you?

you get me if weekend mornings are have no schedule, are timeless and physically indulgent. you get me if brunch includes something eggy and some bit of libation. you get me if you scoop me up at twilight and show me a great spot for photography. you get me if you call me and say hey need anything - i am on my way over ...and i get so say well all i really need is you, but gosh could you get me some butter? you get me if you ask me what I created today. you get me if my quirks make you ache to know more about me. i get you if i can share my bed with you - sleeping included. i get you if i am able to tease you with a simple text. i get you when i understand your need to go fishing.
What I’m doing with my life
doing what i love to do
I’m really good at
i am great at many things
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile and my laugh. my long silver threaded hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i have many favorites of all of these things. food is really important to me, preparing it is a "making" thing. meditative, ceremonial, providing for ...i am particular about food. love sharing food with another. great way to spend time
Six things I could never do without
i prefer the intangibles - sunshine, blue skies ....tenderness, kisses and chocolate, and sleeping in. ...stuff like that. my must haves are my camera, my lap top and this may sound odd but FB. I do a tremendous volume of connecting and selling art on FB. I don't know what i'd do without it. i love hearth - that around the table conversation thing. good linen. a must.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how i treasure "coupling". how fragile i feel sometimes. i think about "why date" a a lot. i love the distraction, the reprieve, the intimacy, that someone to do things with, the sharing of ideas, networking, and that something to look forward to. I don't understand why something so very human and delightful is so elusive. there is a type of man that I really hunger for. i think of him as a renaissance man. I know these men around me, they are the bearded flannel shirt wearing guys that aren't always in the forefront of things. they are part geek, part nerd, part ok with their domestic feminine side, they are industrious and creative...mostly though they are to the core kind and gentle. teddy bear huggable types. many of these types of men have become my friends. I just have yet to really date this sort of person. the phrase "he gets me" is what comes to mind. we all want to be got. true??
On a typical Friday night I am
nothing about me is typical, not a single thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hirsute means hairy. i like men that appreciate a natural full figured woman. its important to me to be treated like a person, not a fetish. while i love sex. I need to have a cerebral connection that begins and lasts past chemistry. I enjoy the appearance of a natural male. that said, i find bearded man VERY attractive. shaven men need not apply. i mean this.

i am herpes positive. i prefer not to give herpes 101 lessons. do your own research.

if you need to learn more - i suggest this video -

i speak of it here, now and very upfront because you then get to proceed in communicating with me - informed - rather than get wigged out about it when i tell you in person later. I am allergic to all condoms. yes, i have tried many different kinds. i am told that my candor on this topic is refreshing. Pretty alarming how many don't post upfront about it.
You should message me if
you should message me

1.if you read my entire profile.
2. something about it had you want to say hey
3. because messaging me would really please me,

plus, messaging me is the only way to begin something. which is what we are here for.

so go ahead, write to me. I promise to write back!!
The two of us