56Bellingham, United States
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My self-summary
i realize that i am at my very best self when i am "makng" i don't need much, like tonight the neighbor dropped off a bag of nettles, I decided to have a cook off - gorgeous night, the sun is setting, the cows are mooing, there is music --i am doing this thing on my own, but hell - it's way the fuck more fun with another. i am a making person. make food, make fun, make art, make love. it's organic. grounded. happy. simple. join me in the making. play!!
What I’m doing with my life
doing what i love to do
I’m really good at
i am great at many things
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile and my laugh. my long silver threaded hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i have many favorites of all of these things
Six things I could never do without
i prefer to be the intangibles -light, blue skies ....tenderness, kisses and chocolate. ...stuff like that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how i treasure "coupling". how fragile i feel sometimes. i think about "why date" a a lot. i love the distraction, the reprieve, the intimacy, that someone to do things with, the sharing of ideas, networking, and that something to look forward to. I don't understand why something so very human and delightful is so elusive.
On a typical Friday night I am
nothing about me is typical, not a single thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hirsute means hairy. i like men that appreciate a natural full figured woman. its important to me to be treated like a person, not a fetish. while i love sex. I need to have a cerebral connection that begins and lasts past chemistry. I enjoy the appearance of a natural male that said, i find bearded man VERY attractive. shaven men need not apply.

i am herpes positive. i prefer not to give herpes 101 lessons. do your own research.

if you need to learn more - i suggest this video -

i speak of it here and upfront because you then get to proceed in communicating with me - informed - rather than get wigged out about it when i tell you in person later. I am allergic to all condoms. yes, i have tried many different kinds. i am told that my candor on this topic is refreshing. Pretty alarming how many don't post upfront about it
You should message me if
because that would please me, and it's how to begin something.
The two of us