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My self-summary
(under construction)
What I’m doing with my life
slowly piecing it back together.
I’m really good at
listening, joking, being
The first things people usually notice about me
good question, I can tell you what I hope people first notice about me.."whoa, that guy looks like a black Mark Ruffalo!!".

but as for what people actually first notice about me I couldn't say. maybe my style of dress (I'm really into tie bars, pocket squares, etc.) or maybe that I look much younger than I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
authors - James Baldwin, Brecht, Thomas Bernhard, Foucault, Bolaño, Perec, Sarah Kane, Blanchot, Pynchon, Chris Kraus, and Semiotext(e)

filmmakers - Antonioni, Imamura, R.W. Fassbinder, Charlie Kaufman, Godard, Bela Tarr, Wes Anderson, P.T. Anderson, von Trier, Solondz, Hal Hartley, Woody Allen, Chantal Ackerman

tv - Parks and Rec., Archer, Pushing Daisies, The Wire, Mr. Show, The Larry Sanders Show, Justified, Party Down, I'm Alan Partridge, Green Wing, Game of Thrones, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Jessica Jones, Better Call Saul, The Flash, Broad City

music - Arthur Russell, Ornette Coleman, Robert Ashley, U.S. Maple, Glenn Branca, Rhys Chatham, The Walkmen, St. Vincent, Dirty Projectors, The National, Sufjan, Van Dyke Parks, John Cale, Nico, Lou Reed, Wire, Swell Maps, Red Krayola, Cat Power, Harry Partch

and because I don't really care that much about food

miscellaneous!!! - Paul F. Tompkins, Cindy Sherman, Maria Bamford, William Eggleston, Scharpling & Wurster, The Todd Glass Show, Filmspotting, Amy Goodman, and Joan Jonas
The six things I could never do without
- Art
- Humor
- Style
- Thought
- Love
- People
I spend a lot of time thinking about
cinema and post-structuralism

is there anything else?
On a typical Friday night I am
Well last Friday I sang (rapped?) a long to the 'Hamilton' soundtrack in my room by myself.

Now that I'm typing it that sounds more sad than fun but trust me it was both....equally.

I will go out any day of the week if I have a compelling reason (a concert, art exhibit, new film, etc.), so I rarely feel like I need to do something just because it's the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hmm...there is really only one thing about my life that I would consider private, but I am not willing to admit it here.

so how about this...if you're really interested message me, and I will gladly tell you. that seems fair, right?
You should message me if
- you are an anti-ableist, anti-racist feminist who is LGBT friendly (so basically just a good person)
- you enjoy intelligent discussions, and sometimes not so intelligent discussions