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My self-summary
I share with J.D. Salinger being born on the Upper East Side of Manhattan and having a Jewish father and Catholic mother. I'm also a writer.

There the resemblance ends.

Salinger took classes at Columbia but I actually got my degree from there. I've published articles and essays in major newspapers and magazines on Orson Welles, Alfred Hitchcock, Norman Mailer, novelist and screenwriter Budd Schulberg, and the joys of Leonard Maltin's gone but not forgotten Movie Guide. I've also written one-act plays which have been performed off-off-Broadway, written and directed for a cable comedy show, done stand-up comedy, and served time in the editorial departments of two major book publishing companies. I've traveled in nearly twenty countries and lived in Paris and Israel. My most recent trip abroad was to Vienna, where I discovered the delights of Wiener Schnitzel, Klimt, and the Cafe Sperl.

Beyond that, I can be witty, charming, sensual, over-intellectual, emotionally supportive, and damned interesting. Except on those days I'm not. But I try to make sure the good days predominate.

I like women who are cultured, good-hearted, psychologically astute, both streetwise and bookwise, and who consider kissing one of the finer arts.

I believe in serious thinking and having fun. And that both are more exhilarating when done with someone you love.

Even J.D. Salinger couldn't have summed himself up so briefly. But then he was a complex kind of guy.
What I’m doing with my life
Reading, writing, going to films I plan to review. Hanging out in Manhattan cafes (where I spend most of my social time), reveling in nature wherever and whenever I can find it, and trying desperately to avoid people with conspiracy theories.
I’m really good at
Separating the wheat from the chaff.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm rarely at a loss for words.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fiction: F. Scott Fitzgerald, "The Love of the Last Tycoon"; Thomas Wolfe, "You Can't Go Home Again," Sartre, "Nausea," Dostoyevsky, "Notes from Underground," Henry Miller, "Tropic of Cancer," Maugham, "The Razor's Edge," Roth, "Zuckerman Trilogy"; Chandler, "The Big Sleep," Orwell, "Nineteen Eighty-four"; Collected Stories of Ray Bradbury, Asimov, "The Gods Themselves," "Harlan Ellison, "I Have No Mouth and I Must Scream and Other Stories," Salinger, "Nine Stories," Joyce, "Ulysses," Vonnegut, "Cat's Cradle"; Joseph Heller, "Catch-22"; Poetry: T.S. Eliott and Philip Larkin; Nonfiction: Tom Wolfe, "The Painted Word," Mailer, "Of a Fire on the Moon," Pauline Kael, "I Lost it at the Movies"; Bellow, "To Jerusalem and Back," Colin Wilson, "The Outsider"; Hemingway,"A Moveable Feast," Ben Hecht, "A Child of the Century"; Films: Godard's Breathless, Chaplin's Modern Times, Citizen Kane, Rear Window, Vertigo, North by Northwest, Psycho, 2001: A Space Odyssey, 8 1/2, Double Indemnity, Sunset Blvd.,The Third Man, The Graduate, The Producers, (1968 version), Network, Manhattan, Chinatown, Kieslowski's Dekalog; Plays: Chekhov, "The Seagull," Wilde, "The Importance of Being Earnest," Pinter, "The Homecoming" and "No Man's Land"; The original, British "House of Cards"; Ice cream: Haagen Dazs Triple Chocolate; Music: Mahler, Symphony # 2, jazz, and The Beatles.

Some of my favorite places: Paris, the Temple of Dendur room at the Met, Oxford, Vienna's Cafe Sperl, Sag Harbor, Lincoln Center, the Cote d'Azur, The Strand bookstore, Kibbutz Degania Bet, and the Hungarian Pastry Shop right here in New York.
Six things I could never do without
Coffee. ☕
Books. 📙
Film and theater. 🎬
My deli man. 🍔
Dark chocolate with sea salt and almonds.🍫
Friendship and love. ❤
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How a woman always knows when you want her.
On a typical Friday night I am
This IS Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The only people on this dating site who write to me are Nigerian scammers!
You should message me if
If either some or the sum total of the passions and enthusiasms presented here resonates with you, obviously.
The two of us