43Winfield, United States
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My self-summary
I am a contradiction:
I have a Master’s level education…I love the mindlessness of operating machinery
I do not drink…I end up being the life of the party
I am very laid back…I drive through projects with focused intensity
I am non-confrontational…I always say exactly what I think
I can spend all weekend on the couch reading a book…I love concerts, any concert
I can shave with a straight razor…I am never far from my iPhone
I can write eloquently…I think that sending mountains of emails back and forth is pointless

Now, let me assist you in your decision concerning contacting me:
I have 3 kids. I don’t drink. I don’t smoke. I dip snuff. I only wear jeans. I have an old-fashioned value system. I don’t do drugs, EVER. PERIOD!

What am I looking for?
Honestly…I don’t know. I can raise my kids. I can do my own laundry (yes that includes ironing). I am an excellent cook. I don’t need a woman to do these things for me. If that is all you have to offer, you are wasting your time and mine. I don’t need casual sex. I can get that anytime without going through the effort of writing all this. So, what do I want? Intelligence. Someone that can hold up their end of the conversation. Kindness. Someone who is genuinely kind to everyone. Friendship. Someone to be my best friend and want that from me too. Desire. Again, a two way street. Teammate. Relationships are a team sport.

If your profile says you are “drama free”, you are either lying or haven’t lived much. Interaction between two humans creates drama. Every time as far as I can tell.

I think the “Match Percentage” is a waste of time. I don’t need someone just like me. I want some variety. Honestly, a good, passionate, discussion with someone who disagrees with me would be a welcome change from “don’t rock the boat” dates. Don’t any of you have your own opinion of anything?

If your profile says something along the lines of “must know who they are and what they want”; I completely don’t understand. What I “am” is a work in progress. I don’t expect this to change before I die. I work to improve myself every day. What I “want” changes regularly. It is certainly different now than it was when I was 30. If what you “want” or who you “are” hasn’t changed…YOU are the one who stopped learning and growing.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning and growing. Encouraging my children to do the same.
I’m really good at
Listening. Making people laugh. Enjoying the small things in life. Not being complicated.
The first things people usually notice about me
I get along with everyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: anything by Dick Francis, Louis L'Amour, Tom Clancy or Sandra Brown.
Movies: Tombstone, The Shawshank Redemption
Shows: Ramsey's Kitchen Nightmares, Hells Kitchen, The Voice
Music: Country first then pretty much anything else.
Food: I'll eat pretty much anything.
Six things I could never do without
1. My God
2. My Country
3. My Family
4. Opportunity
5. Nature
6. Integrity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ways to improve myself spiritually, economically, and personally.
On a typical Friday night I am
Chilling with the kids. Having a cook out. Playing games. Reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am afraid this whole "dating" thing is a waste of time.
You should message me if
You're interested, intellegent, and actually want to meet.
The two of us