54Berkeley, United States
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My self-summary
In context of relationship:
Communicates exceedingly well and deeply; loving, devoted, affectionate, attentive, accepting, romantic, playful; plus ...

Friendship - good/excellent friend or better:
Cares to and capable of communicating very well, feeling, emotional, warm, loyal, supportive, direct, good sense of humor, interesting, interested; plus ...

More generally:
moral, ethical, honest, "good guy", "nice guy",
intelligent, knowledgeable, (life) experienced, very "grown up",
logical, technical/scientific,
much depth and substance,
shy - at least initially (but many would never know it),
significant diversity and variety of interests, talents and capabilities.

For those wishing to know:
Kids: I may be perfectly fine with you having them, but I don't wish to procreate.
Questions/Answers: Answered honestly and accurately, but some answers that were the case in past, may not always be the same for present or future.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to be the best person I feasibly can, including best using my capabilities and respecting my limitations, of being human.

Varies by circumstances, but more specifically, generally, and typically:
Paying much attention to relationship, friend(s), work, much etc., sometimes even remembering to pay attention to myself,
treating others well,
"doing the right thing" - or at least trying,
playing - at least some fair bit,
trying to not screw up the planet and hopefully even make it better,
paying lots of attention to much,
doing many and various things.

And to answer some of the more typical questions:
college - been there, done that, might do again/more,
work/income - yes, though I generally like it, it's mostly means to an end, but also very conscientious in what I do for whom, and how - always trying to make the world a better place, and never work against that,
play/fun/hobbies/interests - yes, and varied - profile hints at some more of those, but includes, e.g.: computers, electronics, engineering, science, technology, hiking, outdoor activities, environment, gardening, bicycling, music, art, performance art, non-fiction & fiction, movies, philosophy, psychology, politics, economics, social policy, ...
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, I managed to ask, and have been told:
"Sparkling blue eyes, warm smile, and that you're a heck of a lot better looking in person than your profile pics would indicate."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask. There is much I may be rather to quite willing to share.

Enjoy the surprise, mystery, and intrigue of discovery. :-)
You should message me if
If you're at all interested, curious, have a question or something to say, or have some feedback or critique or spotted an error on my profile - I'd like to hear from you.
The two of us