46 Lincoln, United States
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My self-summary
I am polyamorous. That doesn't mean looking for casual. I am open to all possibilities from friendship, to committed, romantic relationship, and everything in between.

I am:
Genuine and generous
Quietly competent...soft-spoken yet opinionated



Night owl
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to walk an authentic path in a society where I don't feel like I belong.

Creating my own meaning

My degree is in fine arts, but I work in IT. My heart lies elsewhere. Where, I'm not sure.
I’m really good at
Being creative and analytical. I'm a bit of a nerd. Or is that geek? OK, both.

I can brew a mean beer and make amazing mead.

I like making and fixing things. Am good with my hands.

I'm told I am good at swinging a flogger. So if that's something that interests you...
The first things people usually notice about me
My dashing good looks and devastating wit. Possibly my dry sense of humor.

My humility
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
From food, to fine arts, to music, if it's talented and well-executed, I will appreciate it. If it's talented, well-executed *and* has something interesting/quirky that makes it stand out, I will like it.

When I read, it's mostly science fiction. Although I am a huge A Song of Ice and Fire (Game of Thrones) geek.

Movies - I like when they make me think.

Music... All over the place.

Food - I have found something I like in any and all cuisines I've ever tried.
The six things I could never do without
Creative outlets
An inquisitive mind - mine and yours!
Wool socks
Great beer and interesting cheese
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Nuanced explanations to OKC questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
At Jake's (though I hate the cigar smoke when it's heavy) at 5pm or shortly thereafter beer-geeking out. I'm a semi-pro beer geek

Or just chilling at home. Maybe a fire outside and enjoying the night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am entirely weary of everything "Husker", and I don't follow sports.

My favorite Muppet, whom I also identify with somewhat, is Dr. Teeth. He's mellow and full of zen-like wisdom. But I've also got a bit of Kermit in me, just not the extroverted parts. I'm also part Rolf.
You should message me if
The artist Alex Grey once said that “True love is when two people’s pathologies complement one another’s.” The best love works when our nationalities complement one another and our flaws enamor one another. It may be our perfections that attract one another. But it’s our imperfections that decide whether we stay together or not.

...If you've found something that clicks or interests you, please consider it =) I'm also not likely to message people first.

Or if you just like wool socks.