"The human race will begin solving it's problems on the day that it ceases taking itself so seriously"
The Golden Secret, Principia Discordia, 00074
Disclaimer: everything that is stated here is a momentary construction of my person and personality and has no claim of being whole. And it is work in progress even though I do not constantly work in it. I have been many and some still I am. Many more I might still be.
DISCLAIMER 2: I have a bussylife. I don't want to spend it mostly infront of the computer and I already do so much at work. Therefore I am not looking for chat partners or pen pals. As someone here already said: it's not the 90's anymore.
So I will probably not answer if you live very far away and chances are slim we can manage to meet face to face without mayor complications. I won't answer to "Hi there, how are you" or similar messages.
Disclaimer 3: I do NOT like beards. Although I will admit, that some guys look good, even sexy with beards, I cannot stand the feeling of kissing a bearded face. At least no full beards or mustaches. I guess I am more attracted to Androginity and not really going for the hole super masculine thing.
Edit: this seems to be changing lately.
I consider myself an outgoing and laidback person with a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor. Gelassenheit has become my life Motto. The years have given me my quirks. There is a hippie somewhere underneath, a punk, a geek of some sorts, a goth, a metalchik, dead sirious sometimes, playfull some others. Quite a feline.
One issue I am very passionate about since sometime now is secularism. The other political topics are civil rights for LGBTTIQ persons , the overcoming of gender-binarity and legalization and regulation of drugs. In my opinion also a civil and human rights issue. I am fighting for liberal, evidence based drug policies, that follow the principle of harm reduction and the end of war on drugs.
In respect to love: love is awesome. I like to love but I also love to play. I am looking for non-monogamous relationships. I want to encounter people with an open mind and without preconfigured ideas where something is heading. Borders between relationship types are fluid for me. I am getting comfortable with the concept of relationship anarchy.
If you are looking for someone to be yours or to marry: skip ahead.
I like complicated and challenging and weird.
Some of my fav movies in random order:
Melancholia by Lars von Trier
Being John Malkovic
Bram Stoker's Dracula (Coppola)
Interview with a Vampire
Nightmare before Christmas and Corpse Bride
Walk the line
Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels
Vicky, Christina, Barcelona
Going Postal (Discworld)
A Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy
Die Fabelhafte Welt der Amelie
Scrouching Tiger and Hidden Dragon
Stranger than Fiction
Pirates of the Caribbean
The Lord of the Rings
Dead Poet Society
thank you for smoking
This list is not comprehensible and there might be titels missing. Or not.
Shows: Game of Thrones, True Blood, Dexter, Breaking Bad, The Big Bang Theory, Fringe, Dollhouse.,The Walking Dead, House of Cards, The Newsroom, The Wire, HIMYM ....
I think TV shows are being produced and written very well and that they manage to give a critical reflection of our societies. Some at least. In they´re very provincial american way eitherway. Still I enjoy the complexity of narrative an character building, that is so much intense than in films.
Books: Terry Pratchett, JRR Tolkien and JRR Martin, Saramago, Houellebecq and post-structuralist and postmodern philosophy and cultural sciences Books. Robert Anton Wilson.
The Principia Discordia.
Music: my favourite is rock and Nu Metal, but I like a very wide range of genres including but not limited too: jazz, ska, punk, reggae, classical, drum n bass, psychedelic, soul, funk, dubstep, swing and excluding: hip hop, rap, techno, pop
System of a Down
Rage Against the Machine
Nine Inch Nails
Dota und die Stadtpiraten
Subway to Sally
Die Toten Hosen
Guns N Roses
Kruder & Dorfmeister
Todos tus Muertos
The Smashing Pumpkins
Tito & Tarantula
All depending on the mood.
A comfy bed
Something to fight for
If the world is going to shit and we might just enjoy the ride before it does. About relationship anarchy and how in concept it is great and quite difficult in praxis. About the fluidity of identies. About fluidity. About change. About emmigrating to the canary islands and opening a hostel or running a cannabis social club. About my next tattoo. About what color I want to dye my hair next.
About Chaos and Confusion.
You are or want to live and love poly.
You think there is potential.
You think it could be intellectually stimulating.
You think there might be a spark.
You want to see where the rabbithole goes.
You live nearby since I don´t fancy long distance anything.