"The human race will begin solving it's problems on the day that it ceases taking itself so seriously"
The Golden Secret, Principia Discordia, 00074
Disclaimer: everything that is stated here is a momentary construction of my person and personality and has no claim of being whole. And it is work in progress even though I do not constantly work in it.
DISCLAIMER 2: I have a bussylife. I don't want to spend it mostly infront of the computer and I already do so much at work. Therefore I am not looking for chat partners or pen pals. As someone here already said: it's not the 90's anymore.
So I will probably not answer if you live very far away and chances are slim we can manage to meet face to face without mayor complications. I won't answer to "Hi there, how are you" or similar messages.
Disclaimer 3: I do NOT like beards. Although I will admit, that some guys look good, even sexy with beards, I cannot stand the feeling of kissing a bearded face. At least no full beards or mustaches. I guess I am more attracted to Androginity and not really going for the hole super masculine thing.
I consider myself an outgoing and laidback person with a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor. Gelassenheit has become my Life-Motto (although I must admit I have kinda failed to live by it lately). The years have given me my quirks. There is a hippie somewhere underneath, a punk, a geek of some sorts, a goth, a metalchik, dead sirious sometimes, playfull some others. Quite a feline.
I do enjoy being intellectually challenged, so the best way to score points is to engage in passionate discussions. I studied religionswissenschaft, philosophy and political science focusing on critical and postcolonial theory. This pretty much screwed me up in so many ways, that my world perception is probably only compatible with people that have commited to at least reading about post-structuralism. It is like taking the red pill.
I consider myself a person with lots of empathy; when past the point of critical analysis I can be very engaging.
I haven't lost all of my idealism, even though I worked in politics the last couple of years. A patina of cynisims paired with some sarcasm and selfirony has come to show though. This ususally keeps one sane. Lately looking out for the Fnords has been helping.
One issue I am very passionate about since sometime now is secularism. The other political topics are civil rights for LGBTTIQ persons , the overcoming of gender-binarity and legalization and regulation of drugs. I am fighting for liberal, evidence based drug policies, that follow the principle of harm reduction.
I identify as bisexual, sapiosexual and genderqueer/fluid. I like to play with genderroles. A friend of mine once said, as I put on my corsett and High heels, "what a drag-show!". That doesn´t really describe it in total, but it puts a pin on it. I dislike the binarity of gender in the heteronormative discourse and have since pre-puberty challenged gender-conformity. Since I was brought up in a very conservative an patriarchal envirorment in Mexico, this was much to the distress of my family.
In respect to love: love is awesome. I like to love but I also love to play. I am looking for non- monogamous relationships. I want to encounter people with an open mind and without preconfigured ideas where something is heading. Borders between relationship types are fluid for me. I am getting comfortable with the concept of relationship anarchy.
If you are looking for someone to be yours or to marry: skip ahead.
I like complicated and challenging and weird.
I am more interested in expanding my experiences with persons with female sex or gender identity and genderqueer/fluid persons right now.
Movies: Tarantino, Coppola (both), Tim Burton, Scorcesse and Lars von Trier are my favorite directors.
Some of my fav movies in random order:
Melancholia by Lars von Trier
Being John Malkovic
Bram Stoker's Dracula (Coppola)
Interview with a Vampire
Nightmare before Christmas and Corpse Bride
Walk the line
Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels
Vicky, Christina, Barcelona
Going Postal (Discworld)
A Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy
Die Fabelhafte Welt der Amelie
Scrouching Tiger and Hidden Dragon
Stranger than Fiction
Pirates of the Caribbean
The Lord of the Rings
Dead Poet Society
thank you for smoking
This list is not comprehensible and there might be titels missing. Or not.
Shows: Game of Thrones, True Blood, Dexter, Breaking Bad, The Big Bang Theory, Fringe, Dollhouse.,The Walking Dead, House of Cards, The Newsroom, The Wire, HIMYM ....
I think TV shows are being produced and written very well and that they manage to give a critical reflection of our societies. Some at least. In they´re very provincial american way eitherway. Still I enjoy the complexity of narrative an character building, that is so much intense than in films.
Books: Terry Pratchett, JRR Tolkien and JRR Martin, Saramago, Houellebecq and post-structuralist and postmodern philosophy and cultural sciences Books.
The Principia Discordia.
Music: my favourite is rock and Nu Metal, but I like a very wide range of genres including but not limited too: jazz, ska, punk, reggae, classical, drum n bass, psychedelic, soul, funk, dubstep, swing and excluding: hip hop, rap, techno, pop
A list of bands I like coppied from my Schwarzes Glück Profile:
System of a Down
Rage Against the Machine
Nine Inch Nails
Dota und die Stadtpiraten
Subway to Sally
Die Toten Hosen
Guns N Roses
Kruder & Dorfmeister
Todos tus Muertos
The Smashing Pumpkins
Tito & Tarantula
All depending on the mood.
Human touch and interaction
A comfy bed
I have gotten quite dependable of my smartphone too
Greatful for activities that keep me from thinking.
Edith: lately about hedonism, life-work-balance, ift it is worth sacrificing that much the good stuff in live to pursue a political carreer. If the world is going to shit and we might just enjoy the ride before it does, bacause at least in politics change is to painlfully slow. About relationship anarchy and how in concept it is great and quite difficult in praxis. About the fluidity of identies. About fluidity. About change. About emmigrating to the canary islands and opening a hostel or running a cannabis social club. About my next tattoo. About what color I want to dye my hair next.
About Chaos and Confusion.
You are or want to live and love poly.
You think there is potential.
You think it could be intellectually stimulating.
You think there might be a spark.
You want to see where the rabbithole goes.
You live nearby since I don´t fancy long distance anything.