29 Zürich, Switzerland
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My self-summary
(People, please read my profile first before you send me a message!)

First of all, I'm having a hard time answering all the messages - so it might take a while or I won't even bother. Especially if the message is something like "Hi! How r u?". I mean... really? And if you obviously didn't read the profile you might get an angry and annoyed response.

Due to previous health issues (depression, endometriosis) I very carefully decide on what or whom to spend my energy on. This might change again, but that's how it is right now.

I'm a very simple and complicated person with a lot of love for many people and many things.

These are some key words that describe me a bit:
married, enfp, polyamorous, panromantic, fray/graysexual (asexual spectrum), vegan, singing teacher/singer, yoga teacher (on break), animal lover, people lover, non-hating, innovative, very positive (in my negativity), open-hearted, open-minded, demanding, supporting
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to live an authentic life.
I’m really good at
being silly
being clever
The first things people usually notice about me
"Oh what's your name again? Leyla? As in "Layla" by Eric Clapton?" - Well actually, nobody said this for a long time now. Does nobody know Eric Clapton anymore?

Now I think it's more the fact that I have a different hairdo every couple months ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm not that much of a writer, so there goes my list
(love to talk 'though) :

Her, Big Fish, Once, The Last Unicorn, Avatar, In Bruges, Color Purple, Earthlings ...

True Blood, Avatar the Last Airbender, Daily Show, Bob's Burgers, Southpark, The Guild, Gravity Falls, Arrow, Supernatural, Fullmetal Alchemist (Brotherhood), Clannad...

I LOVE Damien Rice! Ryan Adams, Tom Odell, Ray Lamontagne, Rachael Yamagata, Tobias Carshey, Lauryn Hill, Jazmine Sullivan, India.Arie, The Roots ...

Almost everything vegan ;)

Dragon Age: Inquisition, Elder Scrolls: Skyrim
The six things I could never do without
my husband, my pets, my friends, my tattoos, my beliefs, my confidence, my hope, my love, my motivation and all the bullshit I talk with my friends

(I can count. But I chose to ignore it.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Authenticity. Love... I know I'm repeating everything, but these things are really important to me.

I want to find and have connections - I don't like superficiality.

And I don't mean the silly kind which makes life a lot funnier and a happier place :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Hmm.. there's no such thing as typical actually.

I might stay at home, surf through the internet and watch almost every documentary I can find

I might stay at home with my friends, drinking, talking, watching a movie

I might go out - alone or with people

I might dogsit for my friends which are going out

Or I might just play hours of video games
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Guess there's nothing really I call private.
You should message me if
...if you are not searching for the one and only
...if you can handle the fact that I'm married and very much in love with my husband and that we're planning to have a baby
...if you are not looking for sex
...if you're willing to meet my dogs if you want to meet me
...if you have something interesting to say

Messages like: "Hi hw r u?" don't really get my attention.
Even if you use correct spelling. This seems to be unclear.

I am polyamorous - this won't change.
This doesn't mean that a new partner can't get as important as my already steady partner. Life is flowing, let's ride this wave without expectations.