48 Simpsonville, United States
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My self-summary
Native Pittsburgher residing in SC. Love the likelihood of sunshine, but bored stiff living in the sprawl of big box stores and people that complain for entertainment. I'm looking for a suitable romantic prospect for a lasting partnership. It has been challenging. That being said, I am not married to this area and with the right person, would be willing to relocate. I am pragmatic and adaptable.

With me there is always a handful of projects ongoing. I thrive on being inspired and supported. I am not afraid of hard physical or mentally demanding work. You'll find me to be an analytical and deep thinker. I don't "try" to be, I just am. If you are too, you'll know exactly what I mean. I am a natural skeptic and contrarian and I question everything. I'm driven to find solutions. I am not above compromise and will frequently take the short end of the stick just to move beyond something.

I generally like most people I meet and they generally like me. Being a very social person comes naturally to me. I have a wide net of friends from various political, religious and socioeconomic backgrounds, BUT that doesn't mean I want to feel their breath on my neck for the foreseeable future. My man will enjoy stimulating conversation, have similar political ideologies and subscribe to no godly, magical, superstitious or anti-science views ( this includes paleo diets, astrology, creationism, intelligent design, cupping, reiki, acupuncture, homeopathy, oils, crystals, voodoo etc). I want a real man grounded in the real world.

I am the mother of two adult children and a ten year old son that I adopted as a single woman. I prefer polite and gentle men that understand what it means to be concerned with things beyond their personal interests.
What I’m doing with my life
trying to figure out what practical, possible and fulfilling things my life should include. This will always be the case.
I’m really good at
I'm good at getting people to try something new, leaving people in a better mood and making people laugh.

I'm also very good at coming up with ideas, solutions and compromises.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'd be remiss if I didn't say my hair color. It's been this way for about 6 years now and I feel somewhat obligated to keep it as it seems to bring happiness to the random people I encounter. Other than that, my personality (vibrant, inquisitive, witty, skeptical) and always smiling is what people notice most.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Television for me is whatever happens to be on for the most part. I really don't have any idea about schedules of particular shows. I am more of a web reader, keeping abreast of world news. .

Movies: Netflix has saved my cinematic soul. I have a wide range of tastes from action adventure, documentaries, foreign films, suspense/thrillers, comedies and classics.

Music- My Favorite Artists: Marvin Gaye, Van Morrison, Steely Dan, Michael Franti, Bruce Hornsby, Sublime, Girltalk, The Supremes, Dylan and I have a fond affection for soulful women with powerful vocal chords like Gladys Knight, Lauryn Hill, Joss Stone, Amy Winehouse to name a few.
The six things I could never do without
being appreciated, needed and wanted
money (or another system of acquisition)
inspiration and ideas
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Great love, great loss and why people think the way they do.
You should message me if
you are a kind, confident and reciprocal person
your general intelligence is =/> than my own
you have wit and humour
you are within my age preferences of 35-55 (a year or 2 either way won't make a difference, but please no extremes)
you do not hold beliefs in superstitions of any sort