45 Truro, Canada
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My self-summary
I'm transgender; more specifically transsexual, which actually has nothing to do with sex, so calm yourself. I've been living as a full-time woman undergoing hormone treatment since 2013. Needless to say, this is a time of flux for me. There's no map, no guide and I'm making it up as I go along. That being said, I'm perfectly ecstatic with where I'm at right now.

I moved from California to Nova Scotia in late 2013. Although I was originally raised here, I moved to the States when I was twelve years old and spent the last sixteen years in the San Francisco Bay area. Towards the end, my life crumbled to pieces and I had to return to family in order to rebuild; which was an entirely decisive and necessary turn of events.

I don't know a soul around these parts. My closest comrade at the moment is a teddy bear named Mr. Boo. I sense I may be getting a little too emotionally involved, and it's time to branch out before things sour. Just think about how you'll be the envy of all your peers for being edgy and hip enough to associate with a heavily tattooed transsexual. The public appearances alone will cause you to be renowned within the community. Don't squander this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. Carpe diem, people of Truro... carpe diem!
What I’m doing with my life
My current efforts are focused on healing, self-discovery, planning my future and, hopefully, expanding my circle of friends.
I’m really good at
Waiting. Stick me in a waiting room or airport for a few hours and I just sort of disappear into the recesses of my own mind. No cell phones, no magazines... just me spacing out in my chair hypnotizing myself with some drishti point on the ceiling.
The first things people usually notice about me
Honestly... "That's a man, baby!"

I'd really much rather it be my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have the following individuals tattooed on my back, which should give you a pretty good indication of my interests:

Alfred Hitchcock, William S Burroughs, Aleister Crowley, Frank Zappa, Captain Sir Richard Francis Burton, James Joyce, Ludwig van Beethoven, Salvador Dali, Erwin Schrodinger, Syd Barrett, Ernest Shackleton, Andrei Tarkovsky, Nikola Tesla, William Blake , Edgar Allan Poe, Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, Sergei Rachmaninov, Fyoder Dostoyevsky, and, just for fun, Vincent Price

Top Books:
Foucault's Pendulum, The Magus, The Idiot, Don Quixote, House of Leaves, Moby Dick, Faust, Gravity's Rainbow, Finnegan's Wake, Prometheus Rising, The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, Naked Lunch, The Iliad, The Quincunx

Dostoevsky, Pynchon, Umberto Eco, John Fowles, William S. Burroughs, Poe, James Joyce, Lovecraft, Aleister Crowley, William Blake, Goethe, Hunter S. Thompson, Thomas Hardy, David Foster Wallace, Haruki Murakami, Asimov, Clive Barker, Kobo Abe, HP Lovecraft

Top Films:
Stalker by Andrei Tarkovsky, The Decalogue, Delicatessen, The Cabinet of Dr. Caligari, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Woman in the Dunes, Lawrence of Arabia, Fitzcarraldo, Schizopolis, Baraka, Songs from the Second Floor, Brazil, The Cook the Thief his Wife and her Lover, Dead Ringers, Sergio Leone's "Man Without a Name" trilogy

Andrei Tarkovsky, Jan Svankmajer, Stanley Kubrick, Alfred Hitchcock, Peter Greenaway, David Lynch, Brothers Quay, Krzysztof Kieslowski, Roy Andersson, David Cronenberg, Terry Gilliam, Werner Herzog

Pink Floyd, Iron Maiden, Sigur Ros, Muse, Beethoven, Bach, Shostakovich, Alexander Scriabin, Sergei Rachmaninov, Art Zoyd, Univers Zero, Rush, Jethro Tull, Frank Zappa, They Might Be Giants, Fields Of The Nephilim, Flaming Lips, Ben Folds, Al Stewart, Tool, Yes, Doors, The Residents, Laurie Anderson, Bad Religion, Primus, Les Claypool, Aquabats... and Weird Al's originals.
The six things I could never do without
1. My inhalers. Sigh. Wheeze.

2. Estrogen. Hands down, my all-time favorite pill. And I've taken a lot of pills in my day.

3. Yoga. I suck, but it's been a total game changer.

4. Sleeping with somebody's arm around me, feeling their chest rise and fall and listening to the sound of their heartbeat. I've been living without that for too long.

5. Mr. Clean's Magic Eraser. That stuff is amazing. If I ever become famous, that's the only product I will ever endorse... and I'd do it for free.

6. Hope. After a lifetime without without, I'm finally able to intuitively experience and trust in it. It's a freaking amazing feeling.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what the hell I was thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Desperately wishing for something to do with my Friday nights before ultimately admitting defeat and taking my sleeping pills much earlier than I care to admit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hate reggae. There I said it. Load that in your Buddha bong and smoke it, trustafarian.
You should message me if
Generally, the ball is in your court here. Because of who I am, I'm a bit of a niche market around these parts. Chances are good I won't be the one making initial contact as I've inadvertently freaked enough people out that the outright rejection is beginning to bruise my ego. I do or do not bite, depending upon your preference. Be advised that it is best to make this known in advance to avoid any misunderstanding.