Next, here's what I like in a man: comfortable, easy masculinity (quick to smile, a little cocky maybe, loose fitting t-shirts), confident intelligence (means curious not opinionated), fitness (wellness).
Other things I like and / or offer: love of: dogs, kids, bikes, art, yoga, movies, New York Times, New Yorker, New York, Tennessee Valley Road in Marin, beaches, gratitude, lattes, thoughtful television choices, serious books, frivolous magazines, the Internet, Sondheim, Joni Mitchell, Silversun Pickups, Gaga, Radiohead, jazz, laughter, Reich, Glass, books, bodies, unexplainable things.
At the moment my current faves:
TV: Homeland, Girls, Mad Men, Downton Abbey, Enlightened, Ray Donovan, Orange is the New Black
Books: 10,000 Saints, Beyond the Beautiful Forevers, The Art of Fielding
Movies: Shame, anything with Ryan Gosling, especially Blue Valentine, (but my all time favorites include all the Godfathers, Manhattan, Cabaret, My Life as a Dog)
Music: Girl Talk mash-ups, always Joni Mitchell, Sondheim, and Silversun Pickups (I will marry the man that likes all of these . . . )
Someone to talk to
Tools for writing, painting, fixing
Sometimes sun sometimes rain mostly sun
One or two or three or more of the eight limbs of yoga
That one cold beer at the end of a long day