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My self-summary
I am a work in progress.
I am up one minute and down the next.
I burn bright and hot.
I sometimes lack motivation. other times my cup runneth over.
I am so grateful for the life I have.
I almost always have the best intentions at heart. when I don't you will know it. Trust me.
I am at my most free when inside my hoop.
I am in an Open/Poly relationship.
I am not looking for a one night stand.
I am looking for a lover and a friend. Something meaningful yet stringless.
I am interesting, crazy, and sensual
What I’m doing with my life
I live in Longmont which I love with my daughter who I love and a wonderful man falkor81 whom I love. Yes that is A LOT of love!
I'm a stay at home mom, I spend most of the week with my 9 year old playing, talking about Pokemon and going outside if it's not so hot/cold out.
I also spend a lot of time doing art. A lot of alcohol inks right now.

Mostly I am trying to become who I want to be, even if I'm not entirely sure who that is yet.
I’m really good at
sewing and crafts, I especially like to make stuffed animals for my daughter.
I'm also pretty decent with a hula hoop!
I surprise myself with my cake decorating abilities.
and of course bumping into things.repeatedly.
Also I'd like to think I'm a good and loyal friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my hair. It has lots of colors.

Definitely my hula hoop if I'm carrying it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: currently loving:Song of Ice and Fire series Hunger Games, Nurture shock, any and all vampire books (some more than others listing them would take up to much space), the giver, hitchhiker guide to the galaxy, anything by Daniel Quinn, a scanner darkly, harry potter series, an unquiet mind and so very many more.

I read insatiably, once I start a book I pretty much forget all other life exists.

TV more than movies: I'm really into Game of Thrones, LOST and TruBlood... also flashforward, V, heroes, trauma, Alphas, fringe, Buffy, doll house etc.

still very ecclectic taste in music: REHAB, citizen cope violet vector and the lovely lovelies, the beatles, cake, Jewel, Etta James, Justin Townes Earle, Bill Withers,
K'naan, Carolina chocolate drops, William Elliot Whitmore, johnnyswim ... etc. etc. etc.

and I still love sweets: roasted marshmallows currently

Board games: race for the galaxy, Dominion, Pandemic, blokus, smallworld, shadows over camelot,cards against humanity, power grid, fluxx, cosmic encounter, odin's ravens, exploding kittens, killer bunnies, Merchants of Dale, Mochi Koro , Wizard etc. and my new favorite splendor
Six things I could never do without
1. The Love of my life Falkor81 and our daughter Lillia
2.My Iphone with music and games Galore (but I'd take falkor81's Ipad if he'd let me)
3.Some form of artistic medium (coloring book and crayons, just something!)
4. A good bra<~~~~ doesnt exist
5. Sex. Great sex.
6. my hula hoop!

But in all honesty as long as I have falkor81 and our daughter I'm sure I'd be just fine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The bigger picture... what are we all doing...why are we all here... and whether true love or true happiness really exist and where its all heading and on and on with the same old bullshit questions that will never be answered
How are my decisions going to effect my daughter.
How to get the Pokemon theme song out of my head.
What kind of drugs are the creators of Yo Gabba Gabba on?

Lately I've been pondering whether my balcony is big enough for hooping. Update: it's not
On a typical Friday night I am
home with Falcor81 playing a board game or out to dinner and a movie if we can get a sitter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a little more than a little crazy, but I'd like to think it's in a good way.

Also I use lol and btw in text messages... Not too horrible right? In person I seem to think its funny to say BRB occasionally when exiting the room. Even I know it's lame, but can't stop myself sometimes.
You should message me if
you're interested in talking about any of my interests, you'd like to get to know each other, if you have read all of my profile and like what you hear.

I'd like to reiterate that while it does say I am interested in casual sex, I don't want a one night stand. I want a friend. I am not interested in just fucking around, I want intimacy (though fucking would happily be included)

Also if you are interested in falkor81 and have any questions or just want to chat
The two of us