40Hayward, United States
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My self-summary
My friends would tell you that I am a well balanced, thoughtful, caring, and a fiercely loyal person. I care deeply for the people in my life and am not one to checkout when things start to get a little rough.
What I’m doing with my life
Like a lot of people here in the Bay Area I work in tech as a sales engineer, which has me traveling all over the US and sometimes the world. While my work takes up lots of time I make sure I create balance between that and my personal life.

Outside of work and social time, I am also a popular bondage rigger who ties for art and connection, hosts semi public parties, and helps organize a bondage suspension showcase at the annual Folsom Street Fair.
I’m really good at
I am really good at problem solving complex problems. I can take a bit of information here and there, collaborate with someone, and throw in a dash of my own experience; abracadabra we have a chocolate cake!

I really like to collaborate on ideas and projects with people. I am not someone who is great at coming up with a completely original idea; however I can greatly help with taking my own ideas, thoughts and life experiences to help improve upon someone elses ideas.

I am also really good at working with my hands. I grew up helping my father work on cars and home remodeling. These have been small projects and as large as helping a friend completely change the layout of their house (changing locations of the kitchen, bathroom, bedrooms, and etc). Which means I am an amateur construction jack of all trades.

Some of my current projects are:

-Building a large freestanding mirror out of a wall mirror from a bathroom remodel.
-Rehabbing some old metal parts containers
-Searching for an old and rusty piece of machinery that I can restore
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmmmm I am not so sure about this one....

I will need to write a survey, administer it to random people on the street, compile the data, and then do some statistical analysis on it.

I suspect that the data will say....

Who is this weirdo giving me this survey that is all about himself....
Six things I could never do without
Outdoor Adventures
My DVR (I love TV, but don't want to spend my life in front of it)
Airline/Hotel Points
People in my life
Video Games
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where do I have to book a plane ticket to next?
How do I justify a business trip out of the US?
Where is my next dive vacation going to be?
How do I lighten my pack without giving up comfort?
What are more activities that I can enjoy outdoors?
On a typical Friday night I am
On a typical Friday night I am spending the night out with friends or relaxing from traveling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I quite smoking but did that by switching to a nicotine vaporizer. I am pretty open to talk about anything. Just have to ask...
You should message me if
You are looking for a long term primary partner in crime who practices poly relationships.

I had to take the following from another persons profile on here. It resonated so well with me and my past relationships. Hopefully if you are responding this resonates with you as well.

The two of us