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My self-summary

I'm a 57 year old married man, here on OkCupid for one purpose: to make new friends and lovers that will help my wife SmexxxyWoman and I explore our desires. We want to delve into the mysteries of our libidos, and find the treasures (and pleasures) that we intuitively know are there.

We have many desires, though predominant are her desire to be with another woman, and my desire to experience penetration by a woman - in more than one way. Contact me if you want to know more about that. :)

We are available on fl as well - pictures are limited as we know an audience on here that we are not advertising to, but we're happy to share privately.
What I’m doing with my life
So far, paying for the kids, the exes, the bills and the boredom. It's time to "kick it up a notch"
I’m really good at
Reading, writing, rithmetic! I turn a phrase nicely (cyber, anyone?), though only if I'm in a creative mood will I really let loose. I'm logical until my head hurts (and usually everyone else's too).
The first things people usually notice about me
My wife says my eyes - I wanted to put one as my profile picture, but OKCupid says no extreme closeups, and we're not ready to expose more, as it were, just yet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I can't just name a favorite book. I've been reading since I was 5 (yes, full novels, starting with my Dad's Louis L'Amour collection), so I've forgotten more books than I actively remember. I like an amazing variety of fiction, and I love to read, so it doesn't even have to be great fiction.
I like some non-fiction, but only if it's really well written. I'm not into textbook reading for fun anymore. (I read most of the Encyclopedia Brittanica when I was young)

I like action movies, and comedies, and I've been known to bawl for a really good chick flick. Ditto for shows.

Music: almost everything. I like a little of some, and a lot of some, and most of others.

Food is, unfortunately, one of my weaknesses, and I've hidden some of my desires by eating. Hopefully, exploring this way will reduce some of that need.
Six things I could never do without
Other than the essentials for life?
~ SmexxxyWoman
~ Internet!
~ Computers... well, technology in general
~ The occasional porn (see the above two for my favorite means of
~ Family
~ Sex!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Yep, sex, how to get it without cheating, who it will be with, what they'll do to me, what I'll do to them... wow. Yeah.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending my time with the woman I love, SmexxxyWoman.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I say "Do you think you can peg me?" does that give you a clue? I'm rather private about most things.
You should message me if
You should message me for any reason - I love messages. I'm an information junkie, too. I put "18-88" because I knew SmexxxyWoman would twig at it. We're not seriously that extreme about the age - somewhere a little younger than us, or a little older, is probably where we'll end up.
Don't let that limit you though - if you're a bisexual female message me - let's chat.
The two of us