48San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
I'm married but we are in an open marriage. Which means he and I date other people outside our household. If you are strictly looking for a single woman, that's not me. However, I am monogamous with my boyfriend...and I am honest with him and myself.

I'm a social butterfly with long fiery red hair. I enjoy meeting new people and visiting friends; I enjoy exchanging stories of sex, travels and wild adventures. I enjoy sensual BDSM & pleasuring my partner with sexy toys, I also enjoy those toys teasing me. Floggers, crop sticks, restraints, violet wand, and giving/receiving good ol' fashion spankings! I'm a "switch", which means I enjoy teasing as much as being teased. I'm looking for an intimate new friend/partner/lover, whatever you want to call it. My husband and I are not a package deal, he has his own personal dating life....and I don't share :-)
What I’m doing with my life
I believe in working hard and playing hard. "Loven Life Baby!" Enjoying everyday as though its my last. I travel abroad as often as possible, visiting new countries and diving into their culture to absorb their traditions and appreciation for food, art, music, history. We meet new people and bring them into our lives as part of our family, sometimes becoming an intimate and important part of our world.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at making new friends and helping to connect people together. Like I said, I'm a social butterfly, hopping from one flower to the next :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
Depending on the individual, the first thing people tell me they notice are my green eyes, my 36Cs, my smile, my easy going personality *until I'm piss me off, then its not so easy going ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Yoga Magazine, erotica, sexuality, kink, fetish books. I'm fascinated by the many various subcultures of sexuality, kinks & fetishes. My latest favorite movie is "Hysteria". Great movie! I love all sorts of foods, spices, music, and live shows!
Six things I could never do without
1) Family and Friends
2) Peet's Coffee
3) Mobility (I don't like being stationary too long, get bored easily)
4) Chocolate
5) My Hair Stylist!
6) Love, Trust & Happiness....I will always need someone to love and be loved back. :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where the next adventure is taking us..which country will we travel to, which mountain will we climb together. Who's the next awesome person to walk into my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Unwinding from the work week in our hot tub; music playing in the background, chatting with my partner(s)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's not private if I share it publicly
You should message me if
No drama!
The two of us