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My self-summary
I'm Tucker, I'm a graduate student in the Biomedical Engineering department at the University of Rochester.

I'm polyamorous, happy, and I strive to be interesting to myself and others. I hope to never stagnate in any way -- change is what keeps life interesting. No matter what happens, if you change me you will have bettered me!

I don't look it, but I'm alternative as fuck.
What I’m doing with my life
Over-thinking this question and being meta.
I’m really good at
Evading tricky questions.
The first things people usually notice about me
My very slender build. I'm six feet tall, but at only about 140 lbs I'm very slim. I personally very much like my body, and don't tend to worry too much about it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This list is, of course, by no means complete.

Books: Catch-22, Lolita, The Ethical Slut, currently loving Infinite Jest.

Movies: Shame, 5 Centimeters per Second, The Grand Budapest Hotel, Perfect Blue, Donnie Darko, Miyazaki films, Pan's Labyrinth, Drive, etc., etc. I've taken a few film classes in school, and ended up getting very into film form and structure. Ask me about it!

Music: Absolutely everything. Neutral Milk Hotel, Vienna Teng, Emilie Autumn, The Mountain Goats, Evanescence, The Wailin' Jennies, Amanda Palmer/The Dresden Dolls, Dave Matthews, Cake, Gorillaz, Radiohead, Ingrid Michaelson, Les Miserables (the musical, so I'll put it here.)

I'm adding video games, as I think the games I play have something to say about me: Spec Ops: The Line, Dark Souls, Counter-Strike, Majora's Mask, DayZ, Braid, Shadow of the Colossus.
The six things I could never do without
Good art of various kinds (not just visual!)
A problem to solve
Rule breakers
People who don't mind the corny-ness of the first six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future of technology, RE: transhumanism. Exciting topic that I hope to be apart of one day!
On a typical Friday night I am
an empty essay. Fill me out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open book for the most part, but one of the more private aspects of my life is BDSM. As a switch and a bisexual, there's nothing I won't try at least once -- and odds are, I already have (and I probably love it!) Feel free to ask me about it!
You should message me if
You have a pulse. Just message me if you think we have anything at all to talk about, I love to hold conversations. Messages on OkCupid do not carry inherent sexual or romantic tension to me -- I am perfectly happy to entertain a platonicly-oriented discussion with anyone.