33 Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
I love a rule but am always looking for the loophole.

I'm over-the-top fastidious and I like wicked humor. I'm sensitive but I've seen it all. Loyal to a fault. I ID as queer but there's no option for that on here.

I'm that friend that helps everybody move.
What I’m doing with my life
I live in Brooklyn and do anti-oppression work with survivors of intimate partner violence.
I’m really good at
knowing which bus to take, taking on a challenge and solving problems big and small.
The first things people usually notice about me
I look like I know what I'm doing whether I do or not. But I usually do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like: Grace Paley, Alice Munro, Toni Morrison.

Music: Bettye Lavette, Fiona, Erykah, Janelle Monae, Mapei.

Movies: I've never seen your favorite movie. But I'll watch it.

Food: Vodka. Bourbon. Lentils.
The six things I could never do without
- facts
- my chosen family
- Michigan
- having gotten the hell out of Michigan
- Target
- a task
On a typical Friday night I am
Giving a second look to the bodega man.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My parents met in a mental hospital; my mom was a patient and my dad was a security guard. I live in Brooklyn so I'm trying okcupid.
You should message me if
You're mature, kind,