37 Tulsa, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
I am in a full time practicum and completing my Masters of Social Work program so I am busy, busy, busy! I am also a home owner so when I'm not busy with work and school I am probably working on my yard. Got my garden going and some chickens out there. I am a pretty awesome aunt. I crochet. I like to ferment food. I just bought a truck so I can carry my kayaks to the lake! Bring it summer. I love hooping or learning to hoop that is. I am BUSY! Books are my friend. That's all I have for the moment.

Okay. I have more. I really am not looking for a serious relationship guys. If that is what you are looking for you should probably keep looking. I will be honest I am too busy in my life right now to focus that kind of energy. With that said I am looking for friends and casual dating. Let's hang out. Let's have a drink. Let's not be so damned serious about it all.

With that said I'm not just here for sex so don't bombard me with sexual comments. Nice try, but no........

Okay one more. I am bisexual because I do not mind having a girlfriend or a boyfriend. I am not interested in being your third. I am flattered, but no thank you. I wish you the best in finding what you need though!
What I’m doing with my life
I would more like this to say what I am trying very hard to do with my life, no one is perfect. I am a work in progress.

Being Honest
Being Vulnerable (Brene Brown style)
Helping people feel comfortable talking about the difficult stuff
Building relationships
Showing empathy and compassion
Delving into the dark side of life (hey someone has to do it)
Showing extreme love to those in our society that have been deemed useless or unworthy
Soaking up as much time with children as possible. I learn so much from them and their perspective.
Trying each day to be a better version of myself
and of course living my life to the fullest
I’m really good at
Lightening a dark moment. Seriously I have made more people laugh at funerals than is appropriate.
Falling. SERIOUSLY good at this.
Seeing the bright side of things.
Singing off key and loudly while riding my bike.
"Busting a move" at inappropriate moments.
Crocheting hats for strangers and then mailing them/dropping them on their porch like a creepy hat stalker.
Getting lost. I am directionally challenged.
Getting hit by cars. I think I have a magnet in my ass.
Being single. I rock the shit out of being single.

Now I will tell you things I am bad at, but still do faithfully because they bring me joy and/or I need the practice.

Sign language
Being sociable
Accepting compliments
Hula hooping
Dancing like no one is watching
Dating and flirting
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm discovering that people notice my eyes.
My boobs. I'm just being honest. Unfortunately they are big. I assure you they are not as much fun when you have to carry them around all day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Books? What are books? Oh you mean those fun things I hung out with before grad school? Hahaha, but seriously if you are really interested you can see my reading here.

Shows: I enjoy The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Orange is the New Black

Music: The Weekend, Kendrick Lamar, Drake, Kid Cudi, Disclosure, Saul Williams, Banks, Zeds Dead, Porter Robinson, The Avett Brothers, The Bowerbirds, The Flaming Lips, Ani Difranco, Rachael Yamagata, Amos Lee, MGMT, Modest Mouse, The Alabama Shakes, and of course blues, baby, blues.

Food: With the new kitchen I am back to loving to cook! I enjoy many different foods with Mediterranean being my favorite. My next choices would be Ethiopian and Indian. I also have a semi-obsession with soup. I love trying to cook different soups and have a small arsenal of soup recipes.
The six things I could never do without
The kiddos in my life, my wonderful small group of friends, family, books, music and those small moments of joy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends or kids, watching movies, bonfires, reading books, or crocheting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I already talked about my soup obsession. What more do you want from me?
Ummmm....I also have no problem being a cougar so if you like older women bring it. Hahaha
Also when no one is looking I hula hoop in my undies.
I have a weakness for boys with dreads and girls on skateboards.....or vice-a-versa....
You should message me if
You feel that little thing in your gut that tells you to.

You want to do something like hike, bike or kayak.

You want to?