37Pleasantville, United States
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My self-summary
I tutor ESL at a nearby community college and I'm going to try to become a teacher at a college or highschool but so far that hasn't happened so I'm just living my life.

I like metal music, beer and red wine, martial arts and competing in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (I'm a brown belt and have been doing it since 1996), cats, ethnic food, hiking and spending time in nature, watching movies and hanging out with real people who don't put on disguises.
What I’m doing with my life
I tutor ESL to college studentsfor now but my goal is to become a full time ESL teacher at a good college or high school and spend the rest of my time training in martial arts and hanging out with people who are cool (YOU??). Nevertheless, I'm still in transition so if you're looking to settle down then I'm probably not your type as that is not my intention right now. However, that certainly does not mean I am just looking for a quick fling or that I am not interested in a serious relationship by any means.

As far as background and education are concerned, I got my B.A. in Philosophy at Bard and got my Masters in English about 3 years ago.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh, writing and anything to do with English, randomly reciting movie quotes, competing in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and Submission Grappling tournaments and martial arts and holding my liquor haha. I haven't picked up the guitar in a while but I'm pretty good at that as well and played for 7 years and was even in a band for a short while.

I'm also good at wishing I was a character in Dazed and Confused.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not even sure but I'd like to know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Kevin Smith movies like: Clerks, Mallrats, Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back, Coen brothers movies like The Big Lebowski,Fargo, etc Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Dario Argento movies: Suspiria, Profondo Rosso, Phenomenon, The Goonies, and too many horror movies to list.

I like a lot of rare gothic/suspense/surrealistic novels in terms of books like The Monk by Matthew Lewis, Melmoth the Wanderer, Lautremont's Maldodoror, Dracula, The Turn of the Screw, anything by H.P. Lovecraft or Edgar Allan Poe, The White Witch of Rose Hall, The Blood Countess by Andrei Codrescu and also anything by the beat-poets.

As far as music goes I mainly like metal, punk, and a lot of other random stuff.

I love Thai food, Indian and Italian.
Six things I could never do without
Not sure, let me think about it more.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably wanting to do something cooler than what I'm actually doing haha, but it probably involves alcohol.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I can be shy at times.
You should message me if
You have a good sense of humor, are patient, open minded and interested in dating a nice guy who isn't like all the others.

You also must be accepting of the fact that my life path and employment are in flux and yeah, I often like brunettes and latin women with athletic builds but what I truly care about is personality.
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