I enjoy being around people who value open and direct communication.
I am warm and empathic AND l can also be sassy and foul mouthed. 😜
I love to dance and want to do that more in my life.
I try to read as much as I can. My list of books to read continues to get larger all the time. So little time and so many books! :)
I enjoy being around people who are invested in personal growth and learning more about themselves and how the world impacts them. It does not mean that I will analyze my dates or partners like a client - I do enough of that at work. But it does mean that I enjoy stimulating conversations about psychology and would be happy to explore different ideas with you.
Also, issues of social justice are deeply close to my heart.
Books:Coffee will make you black by April Sinclair, pretty much any book by Barbara Kingsolver, Another Country by James Baldwin, Nicole Blackman-poet, Mary Oliver poetry, Lauren Slater, Audre Lorde, bell hooks
Movies: Superbad, Strapped, Bronx tale, The hours. I am realizing these are all old but hey I am loyal to what I like and I will just say its a partial list.
Music: funk, old school r&b, reggae, hip-hop, metal, and 60's, 70's, and 80's rock, 90's Russian rock, jazz, and blues. A LOT!!!
Bonnie Raitt! I could listen to her all day long.
Food: Thai, Sushi, Italian, and good old comfort food. any type of dish with coconut milk. yum! curry! Dark Chocolate, eggplant, sandwiches, Fried Chicken, Mashed Potatoes.
TV: The Office, Modern Family, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Web Therapy, Arrested Development, Parks and Recreation, This American Life, Newsradio, The League, Waiting for God ( british comedy)
Golden Girls and Designing Women are my all time favorites!
2. friends and loved ones
3. tasty food
5. my journal
6. shiny things
If you are 6 ft or taller, that's a big bonus.
I find calmness and intellect extremely sexy.
Also, self-awareness and introspection are very important qualities to me in my partner. If you value that too, you should definately message me.