44Cape Town, South Africa
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My self-summary
Right now, I am a work-in-progress. I plan to be a work-in-progress until I am 90. At that point, I may choose to become an adult. It would depend on my future at that point. Currently, I still feel like I did when I lived in digs at Varsity. Only difference is I now own the house and the car I drive. This XKCD comic speaks to my soul: (616)

If you haven't guessed yet, my tongue is definitely in my cheek above. I'm actually very settled. I have a good job (and a thriving business I will take over soon), a family I am close to, wonderful friends that keep me grounded and a stress free life. And I would love to share it with someone. I have lead a very privileged existence, and I acknowledge that. I have been given opportunities and options not open to many people. And because of that, I treat everyone with respect and humility.

My main goal in life is this: I would like everyone who has ever met to think that their life is just a tiny bit better for having met me. Even if it is a brief meeting and the improvement is minuscule, even if it just to put an unexpected smile on their face. Sometime I do it with my means, sometimes with my time and sometimes with my attitude.

It's a little contradictory, but even though I am kinda shy and introverted, I love meeting new people. People fascinate me. And I am trying to be more sociable these days. I am looking for someone that will get me out of my comfort zones. Take me to craft markets, up mountains, travelling to new places far and close by. I have the means to go, but not the impetus. I need someone that has the impetus but maybe not the means, so we can compliment each other and go on grand adventures.

Since everyone seems to be so interested in it, I tested as INTJ... though I am trying to be more E...
What I’m doing with my life
I currently working with my father in a company we own. We write and support software that runs private hospitals and clinics. Other than that, I am currently on a major life overhaul and have started going to the gym 3-4 times a week.
I’m really good at
Reading a book cover to cover in one sitting, quoting movies, watching TV, boardgaming, jailbreaking an iPhone
The first things people usually notice about me
I want to say "eyes", to sound all romantic... but honestly, I have no idea. You tell me when we meet...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Microserfs - Douglas Copeland
Grunts - Mary Gentle
Anything from Terry Pratchett, Neil Gaiman, Peter David, Asimov, Tom Holt or Mike Grell

Clerks, Highlander (there should have been only one), Aliens, Eurotrip, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang

TV Shows:
Firefly, Game of Thrones, The West Wing, House of Cards, The Big Bang Theory, Suits


My World Famous In Cape Town spaghetti bolognaise (Every single man can cook one dish well, and this one is mine), Nandos, CHEESECAKE!!

Board games:

Six things I could never do without
My iPhone
My cats
My family
My imagination
My humour
My White Male Cisgender privilege (I know I have benefited from it, and I acknowledge it exists, which is why I could never live without it... but I try to not let it influence how I react to other people and situations)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How my life counterpoints the surrealism of the underlying metaphor.
On a typical Friday night I am
At supper with the family after having come from the gym. Then (depending on how strenuous the gym session was), I am either out with friends or in watching TV.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Yeah... riiiight.
You should message me if
I have not scared you away yet.
The two of us