I am NOT trying to be everyone's cup of tea... But I am someone's shot of tequila!!
PLEASE NOTE: I will not respond to those who clearly cannot READ.
THIS IS A TEST:
I'd rather cuddle then have sex. If you understand grammar you will get it. If you don't and or you can't touch your toes and include a full body shot picture in your profile that is current, please save us both some time and move along.
Confident, secure, fun outgoing guy looking for friends first and maybe more. I love to dance, karaoke, watch a band play, concerts, boating, travel, hiking, movies, cook outs, parties, volunteer, personal and professional development, working out, Zumba (yes men do Zumba), bicycling, swimming, walking (I'm in the gym 3 days a week lets get our sweat on!!
PLEASE READ: I was 315lbs when I realized I wasn't attracted to what I was attracting... I came to the conclusion that I needed to loose weight. So I'll keep working on me till I'm attracting what I'm attracted to! My goal is 220lbs. 15lbs to go. Which means if I don't respond please understand.
That being said how many guys drop 75lbs in a year (determination), own a tux, have taken ballroom dance lessons, know how to cook, keep a clean house, and could build you a house or a website. Be extraordinarily captivating or at least don't wonder for a minute why I moved on.
We can never stop learning and growing. I make new friends everywhere I go but I'm looking for that special friend that gets me and is outgoing and social like I am. Someone to share it all with and build a future with. If you want to get to know me and have a great sense of humor say hi and let's take it from there. :-)
My divorce was finalized in Feb 2013 so my life has been downsized in a material way which has been a great life lesson about what's really important. I'm focused on the relationships and making a difference for those in my world. Ive found being outward focused brings me great joy!
If you read it I'm interested in your opinion. If you didn't I'm curious why not? Most who sit in judgement of a D/s relationship dont fully understand its not about power or degridation or pain. Its about love. Please don't take this as a misogynistic way of thinking. It's about feminine power and masculine power being distinctly different and amazing in each way. I long for a woman who stands comfortably in her feminine power... Ok and is also into me. Hehehe ;-)
Movies I love Sci-Fi, drama. Action, romantic comedies and comedies.
TV: Not much time for it actually but I love the Big Bang Theory, 2 1/2 Men, Shark Tank, How I Met Your Mother and 2 Broke Girls. Orange is the new black, house of cards, Boss, Breaking Bad, Archer and others I find on Netflix.
Music I like variety, 80's, 90's to today. Gotta dance and rock out.
Food: Italian, Mexican, American pub food, sushi and a good steak! I can cook but I love going out.
People with no pictures or just one or two pics in your profiles!!?!? Why? You're setting yourself up for disappointment and more rejection than if you put 6-8 pics up. Let them see you how you are. Not in some glamour shots or some pics from back in the day. Be yourself!! If you wind up connecting with someone then it will be honestly.
Those who only have head shots. Yes that's great but where's the rest of you? Be authentic be you. Let your pics show your personality. That your having fun. Sorry it's very frustrating for us on the other end when we finally meet or get a pic. You wind up pissed because we aren't into you. This just in... men are visual!! Half might be due to the shock and disappointment which you caused by not putting your pics out there. It's far better to never hear from someone than to be let down by false hope again and again. I am who I am and that's all that I am. Agaggagagaga - Popeye
No body shot or pics no chat. Sorry I've spent to much time with those I'm mentally into but not physically and I wind up hurting them which hurts me too. It's in our mutual best interest.
Sundays I like watching the Colts play, with my friends at the Ale Emporium in Castleton you can't beat their hermanaki wings!
If you feel making friends is the important first step in a journey of relationship. If you feel my strange and weird matches up with your strange and weird.
Since no one reads this far in these profiles!
Definition of sapiosexuality:
1. (n.) A behavior of becoming attracted to or aroused by intelligence and its use.
Origins: From the Latin root sapien, wise or intelligent, and Latin sexualis, relating to the sexes.
Example: As for me it isn't all about a woman's looks and body. I want an incisive, inquisitive, insightful, slightly irreverent mind. I want someone for whom philosophical and intelligent discussion is foreplay. I want someone who sometimes makes me go ouch due to their wit and evil sense of humor. I want someone real that I can reach out and touch appropriately and randomly (maybe inappropriately with permission of course). Maybe even someone I can cuddle with. I decided this means that I am sapiosexual. How about you??
Turn on my mind because the body will follow! :-D