47 Indianapolis, United States
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My self-summary
ISO Intelligent, Attractive, Extroverted & Captivating.

I am NOT trying to be everyone's cup of tea... But I am someone's shot of tequila!!

PLEASE NOTE: I will not respond to those who clearly cannot READ. Also I'm not an A List User so I can't see your LIKES. Message me. If I respond it means I'm interested. :-)

I'd rather cuddle then have sex. If you understand grammar you will get it. If you don't and or you can't touch your toes and include a full body shot picture in your profile that is current, please save us both some time and move along.

Confident, secure, fun outgoing guy looking for friends first and maybe more. I love to dance, karaoke, watch a band play, concerts, boating, travel, hiking, movies, cook outs, parties, volunteer, personal and professional development, working out, Zumba (yes men do Zumba), bicycling, swimming, walking (I'm in the gym 3 days a week lets get our sweat on!!

PLEASE READ: How many guys own a tux, have taken ballroom dance lessons, know how to cook, keep a clean house, and could build you a house or a website. Be extraordinarily captivating or at least don't wonder for a minute why I moved on.

We can never stop learning and growing. I make new friends everywhere I go but I'm looking for that special friend that gets me and is outgoing and social like I am. Someone to share it all with and build a future with. If you want to get to know me and have a great sense of humor say hi and let's take it from there. :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Focused on my health goals of building strength, reducing my weight and being healthy. Hitting the gym 3x per week, riding my bike 5-7 miles a week, walking 10 miles every week, and watching what I eat has produced results!
My divorce was finalized in Feb 2013 so my life has been downsized in a material way which has been a great life lesson about what's really important. I'm focused on the relationships and making a difference for those in my world. Ive found being outward focused brings me great joy!
I’m really good at
I'm good at making people laugh, and at helping my friends and making a difference in my area of the world. I love meeting new people and seeing how I can help. I recently retook the Myers Briggs and DISC tests again. Very insightful. In DISC I'm a D, I and both were pegged at the very top of the chart. In Myers Briggs I'm a ENTJ on the cusp of ESTJ. Both confirm what I already knew but its helpful insight into what I'm looking for.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'd have to say my smile and my huge.... ahh personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm an avid listener to audio books. It Works well with my fast paced always on the go lifestyle. Mostly personal and professional development books but honestly the last fiction I read was the 50 shades of gray trilogy. I just had to know what the big deal was about! It wasn't well written but it was a great story. I have to say the concept around the contract was brilliant.

If you read it I'm interested in your opinion. If you didn't I'm curious why not? Most who sit in judgement of a D/s relationship dont fully understand its not about power or degridation or pain. Its about love. Please don't take this as a misogynistic way of thinking. It's about feminine power and masculine power being distinctly different and amazing in each way. I long for a woman who stands comfortably in her feminine power... Ok and is also into me. Hehehe ;-)

Movies I love Sci-Fi, drama. Action, romantic comedies and comedies.

TV: Not much time for it actually but I love the Big Bang Theory, 2 1/2 Men, Shark Tank, How I Met Your Mother and 2 Broke Girls. Orange is the new black, house of cards, Boss, Breaking Bad, Archer and others I find on Netflix.

Music I like variety, 80's, 90's to today. Gotta dance and rock out.

Food: Italian, Mexican, American pub food, sushi and a good steak! I can cook but I love going out.
The six things I could never do without
God, friends, family, laughing, inspiration and my iPhone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I actually don't spend a lot of time thinking about this but this space in my profile needed something.

People with no pictures or just one or two pics in your profiles!!?!? Why? You're setting yourself up for disappointment and more rejection than if you put 6-8 pics up. Let them see you how you are. Not in some glamour shots or some pics from back in the day. Be yourself!! If you wind up connecting with someone then it will be honestly.

Those who only have head shots. Yes that's great but where's the rest of you? Be authentic be you. Let your pics show your personality. That your having fun. Sorry it's very frustrating for us on the other end when we finally meet or get a pic. You wind up pissed because we aren't into you. This just in... men are visual!! Half might be due to the shock and disappointment which you caused by not putting your pics out there. It's far better to never hear from someone than to be let down by false hope again and again. I am who I am and that's all that I am. Agaggagagaga - Popeye

No body shot or pics no chat. Sorry I've spent to much time with those I'm mentally into but not physically and I wind up hurting them which hurts me too. It's in our mutual best interest.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually out with a friend or a bunch of friends seeing a band play, dancing and laughing. Around Indy you will find me at District Tap, Drakes, Champps, Latitude 39, Ale Emporium, Britton Tavern, Rick's Boatyard, Cooper's Hawk, Scotty's Brewhouse, Blend and on Weds Oct 2015 through spring you will find me 8-11 at the new Free Spirit Lounge for Captain Selfie's Hump Day Party!! Come out listening to live music, dance and catch up with friends. :-) Oh and at Tilly's singing karaoke once in a while.
Sundays I like watching the Colts play, with my friends at the Ale Emporium in Castleton you can't beat their hermanaki wings!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm comfortable with who I am and more blessed than I need or deserve. At the same time I'm striving to be better mentally and physically.
You should message me if
If you live with 10 miles of Keystone Crossing or are relocating to Indianapolis.

If you feel making friends is the important first step in a journey of relationship. If you feel my strange and weird matches up with your strange and weird.

Since no one reads this far in these profiles!

Definition of sapiosexuality:

1. (n.) A behavior of becoming attracted to or aroused by intelligence and its use.

Origins: From the Latin root sapien, wise or intelligent, and Latin sexualis, relating to the sexes.

Example: As for me it isn't all about a woman's looks and body. I want an incisive, inquisitive, insightful, slightly irreverent mind. I want someone for whom philosophical and intelligent discussion is foreplay. I want someone who sometimes makes me go ouch due to their wit and evil sense of humor. I want someone real that I can reach out and touch appropriately and randomly (maybe inappropriately with permission of course). Maybe even someone I can cuddle with. I decided this means that I am sapiosexual. How about you??

Turn on my mind because the body will follow! :-D