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My self-summary
Hello, my name is Ray if you didn’t catch that from my screen name. Lover of Strong women (both mentally & physically), Fitness, Healthy Eating, craft beers, whiskey, cartoons, going on random adventures, music and movies! I'm a former chef. I still enjoy cooking at home, just not professionally anymore. Tattooed and loving it! I’m a complete & total goofball when i feel comfortable enough with the person. My humor ranges from Dry to Slapstick Funny to the Dark and Morbid. I'm extremely sarcastic! You've been warned... (cue: Dramatic music) I can sometimes be shy at first, but a few drinks, a gorgeous smile, a awesome energy and/or a warm welcoming personality can take care of that right away. I'm traditional in my ways. I hear pretty often that I have an old soul. You can decide for yourself when we talk and or meet. I just believe in treating people the way I would want to be treated. So many have forgotten the lost art of chivalry, manners & etiquette ... its right here, let me show you. I'm an open book, so don't be shy I'm excited about the opportunity to meet new awesome people and to hopefully have some fun adventures.

Diving a little deeper into the book of Ray... I’m freaking rad! Here are some cliff notes to my radness. =) I love surrounding myself with people that have positive & uplifting energies about themselves. Hopefully thats you. If it is then lets just enjoy each others company and see where it goes. If you know anything about astrology and horoscopes I'm a true Aries, and damn proud of it! I’d consider myself to be a diamond in the rough. But I’m constantly working on improving and polishing the diamond that I am.

Most Compatible Signs: Sagittarius, Leo, Libra, Aquarius & Gemini
What I’m doing with my life
Living my life to be successful and happy! :D Currently I produce Techno and DJ. I'm also a Fitness & Nutrition Coach / motivator for BeachBody. Working on getting my PT certs and some specialized certs so I can train semi pro bodybuilders. Happily changing lives 1 pound at a time. So needless to say Fitness and Music are 2 major passions in my life. I also consult with nightlife venues on how to improve their marketing strategies. The list goes on... working the boring 9-5 isn't in the cards for me. I'm an entrepreneur and always will be. Working for someone to build their dreams is for someone else.
I’m really good at
Getting people to believe this is just a really bad tan. Lol

Also the following... Listening, Music, Cuddling, Cooking, Lifting heavy things, Loving, Bicycling, Sarcasm, Going on random adventures, Bowling, Making people laugh, Sketch Art ... just to name a few.
The first things people usually notice about me
My dimples, that we are friends on facebook, I'm a man of my word, I live with purpose. List goes on but i'll let you find out for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Eat That Frog, The 45 Second Napkin Presentation, 25 Ways to Win with People, You Are A Badass, Failing Forward, How To Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, The People Code, The Slight Edge, The Entrepreneur Rollercoaster, Motivation Manifesto, #AskGaryVee, Crush It, The 10 X Rule, Start: Punch Fear in the Face, just to name a few.

TV Shows: Regular Show, The Amazing World of Gumball, Adult Swim, Family Guy, Toonami, Anime, most cartoons, Sons of Anarchy, Preacher, The Walking Dead, American Pickers, Deadliest Catch, Defiance, Archer, Ghost Asylum, most paranormal shows, pretty much anything on AMC, SCI, Amercian Destination, SYFY, Discovery, Animal Planet and Nat Geo.

Movies: I like all genres. I usually go to the movies once a week.

Music: Techno, Tech House, EDM, Metal, Hardcore, Emo, Industrial, Synth pop, Garage, Rock, 80's. I'm open to just about anything though.
The six things I could never do without
A Companion
Real Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Music ... its a major part of my life, Preparing myself for my future, Family, Friends, Work, Life, Personal Development so that I may better myself for the people around me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working out, Working, Djing, On my couch, In my studio, Out to dinner, At a dive bar, or bowling. Just to name a few options but i'm pretty open to do anything as long as I'm with the right person or people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ok... I've never told anyone this before. But I was in a Top Secret experiment for the government and I'm really a white man trapped in a black mans body. I've already said to much. =D
You should message me if
If you consider yourself to be pretty rad! :) Only awesome chicks need apply... lol.

You're a Flyers fan!

You actually own a pair of heels 4" or more! (Its not that serious but i do love a girl in heels)

You know the difference btw just enough makeup and wayyyyyyy to much.

You're a women thats down for working out together, meal prepping, squatlife enthusiast, loves having her butt played with and enjoys cuddling .

I would love to find someone that is fine with staying in and watching a movie but will also be down for heading out and pulling an all nighter if we decide to.

You're looking for good conversation, a new friend, social drinking buddy, fitness buddy, cuddle buddy or maybe something deeper.

If you're going to judge me bc of spelling mistakes, grammar and/or using short text. Thanks for stopping by but keep it moving. #sidenote