41Redwood City, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a friendly, smiley, optimistic girl who loves all people. I love to laugh, but also love deep conversations on life & love and what is important to each person I meet.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm part time mom, plus I lead the marketing efforts for a environmentally friendly business. I have the luxury of being able to get away for a date, one to two days or nights a week.
I’m really good at
Swimming, listening, talking.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, legs, boobs and hair...and not necessarily in that order. ;-) I've been told I'm a fun size.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Paper Books: I have a BA in English Lit. So I love books. I'm really into character development - so I love Anne Tyler novels and also love Jeffrey Eugenides' 'Middlesex' and 'The Marriage Plot'. I'm a big Amy Tan fan as well as Isabelle Allende, favorites being Daughter of Fortune and Bonesetter's Daughter which were great to read back to back. In addition, the 'Millennium' Series was awesome and so timely in today's world (aka 'The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo' series.). Other classic favorites are A Handmaid's Tale, Tess of the d'Ubervilles, Jane Eyre, Alice in Wonderland, Mill on the Floss, anything Steinbeck (and now wishing I kept my college syllabus').
"The Geography of Bliss"... so good...made me want to go to Bhutan and Iceland. I just finished reading Life by the Cup, a beautiful self-help guide via memoir. If you love tea, it's worth a read...which reminds me how much I loved Three Cups of Tea.
Oh, and if you want a metaphor for life, I don't think anything sums it up better than The Wizard of Oz. We all have to figure out our own path.

Big Screen: I love Cohen Bros. movies, especially 'The Hudsucker Proxy'. I love the concepts behind the movies 'Sliding Doors' and 'Match Point'...I love thinking about how life could be different with one small change.

Small Screens: Occasionally I enjoy watching TED talks... Specifically the two on Vulnerability, so fascinating. Also Discovery channel and those heavy duty science and space programs about how the Earth could be eliminated any moment, how complex and vast deep space and time are, as well as how unlikely we are to exist at all and in this moment in time together. Anytime the world is too much, I watch these and my silly little problems are diminished greatly. Currently catching up on Downton Abbey & OITNB.

Food: I eat everything and have just a few minor aversions...I love to try new things and even would try things I don't normally like. Growing up I was dubbed by my parents their, "little gourmet"...of course who uses that term anymore?

Music: I quite an eclectic taste although gravitate toward the synth alt rock styles. I love classical, blue grass, Cajun, mushroom jazz, pop, and r&b, as well as open to new styles. I am sooo... in love with Silversun Pickups these days (with a major girl crush on Nikki)!! Also a fan of: The Smiths, Depeche Mode, 10,000 Maniacs/Natalie Merchant, Radiohead, Tame Impala, Chris Isaak (who btw is on my wish list of celebs to fuck), MGMT, Amy Winehouse, Tori Amos, Alt-J, Of Monsters and Men, Chvrches, The Drums, Christine and the Queens name a few. Oh and just saw The XX live recently... such a great show!
Six things I could never do without
Sex, love, kissing, companionship, deep conversations, the kind of wine that makes you feel alive, cheese, IPA beer, bread pudding, great books/movies. (Seriously, six isn't enough.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What does respect really mean and how to give it? The concepts of love and trust and how they are intangibles that we all try to somehow measure and attain with each other. How to give love unconditionally yet also have boundaries, desires met and preferences, as balance. I've gotten into Noah Elkrief (search YouTube videos) and his teachings, which I recommend highly.

Also for fun; why is it so hard to find women for repeat threesomes? I love them!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Low key and relaxing after a family dinner on the couch with a glass of wine or port (wishing I was watching a great movie if my hubs is watching sports...maybe a perfect time for date night with a lover?)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open book. Ask me and if it's true, I'll tell you so.
You should message me if
If you would like a sweet & sexy girl to be primarily a good listener and friend, and has a naughty side as well. Not looking for casual sex. I'm looking for a strong connection and chemistry both in and out of the bedroom. If you're looking for passion, intimacy, a great kisser, and someone who is open not just in life but in the bedroom, we'll likely get along well. (Important to note that I'm unlikely to respond to you if we have a low match %, you don't meet the criteria on my profile, you have written a message to me less than 6 words in length, and/or you have no pictures posted and/or have "lol" written in your own profile or messages.) Bonus points for close proximity.
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