49 San Antonio, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a passionate, intelligent person looking for the same. My career is in the arts and I spend a lot of time dreaming and imagining, but I also have a practical, goal-oriented side and love using the other half of my brain to tackle problems or to achieve a goal. I'm passionate about what I do and hope you are, too.

I love to laugh and my friends think I'm funny, but I see myself as a serious girl who values integrity and compassion in myself and others. Too much small talk bores me, I'd rather make a meaningful connection.

I'm a plus-sized beauty (BBW), I have a great set of lips and love to kiss. I'm attracted to brains and talent in a man.

I'm not on this site very much. My schedule is chronically overloaded (there's just so much I want to do) and I like to be present when at work or with friends, not typing on my phone. So please don't take offense if it takes me a week to get back to you. When I'm with you I'll be just as present.

Oh, and I'm a liberal/progressive feminist and I'm with her.
What I’m doing with my life
Just got a new job as an arts administrator in San Antonio! Just moved here from Chicago and looking to get to know my new city.
I’m really good at
A lot of things: I'm a capable girl. I'm particularly good at singing, cooking, thinking on my feet, and speaking in front of a group. I'm also good at procrastination, something I'm always working on unlearning.
The first things people usually notice about me
I get a lot of compliments on my big green eyes, speaking voice, and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Franny and Zooey, The Alchemist, The Power of Myth, Moby Dick, The Brothers Karamazov, Gone With The Wind, Jane Eyre, Calvin and Hobbes, Dorothy L. Sayers mysteries.
Movies: Moonstruck, Tootsie, Little Miss Sunshine, Gone with the Wind, Singing in the Rain, On the Town, American Beauty, Birdman, The Wrath of Khan, The Return of the Jedi.
Shows: Arrested Development, Modern Family, 30 Rock, Mad Men, Downton Abbey, Sherlock, Kimmy Schmitt, Broad City, Amy Schumer, GBBO.
Music: Beatles, Elvis Costello, Joni Mitchell, Rickie Lee Jones, early Tom Waits, jazz standards, Broadway cast recordings, I'll listen to the very best in any genre.
Food: I'm a bit of a foodie and an adventurous diner who will try almost anything. I do some pretty fabulous home-cooked Italian.
The six things I could never do without
Fresh air
A song in my heart
Good conversation
Great books
My 2 kitties
Chicago! (my kind of town)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to become better at what I do, and how to get more opportunities to do it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either at home watching a movie with the kitties or out seeing a friend's show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love my HD TV. There, I said it.
You should message me if
You are intelligent, passionate, truthful, and love a strong but soft woman.