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My self-summary
Take everything written on this profile with a pinch of salt, or ignore it completely, there's no way to get to know someone by reading one page of text after all so please get in touch if you're even a little bit curious!

This profile needs rewriting, please just message me if you want to know anything!

Soooo... I'm just over two years away from my 30th birthday and have unexpectedly found myself a single housedad. It's actually not a bad gig though the hours are long and the pay is weak! I love being with my boys (4 and 1) but find it impossible to do many of the things I'd like to in my life since I have them A LOT! Meeting a new partner (and even new friends!) is without a doubt one of the hardest things to do so here I am trying the interweb.

Just to get it said and out of the way, this is a profile for me, not my kids. They have a mum already and I'm not looking to fill a vacancy, just to find someone for myself. I don't care either way if you already have kids of your own or if you want them in the future. As long as you're ok with that then I don't see any harm in getting to know each other, never know what might happen!

I'm not looking for someone just like me, just someone I can relate to and share with. Someone to talk to, go out with, stay in with, do all sorts of things with. I'm not interested purely in finding a date here either, I'd love to make some new friends as well, if I find something more than that I'll be happy but I'm not expecting any miracles!

In short if you're geeky, nerdy or just generally bored with your life then you should get in touch! I'll always reply to any messages I get so don't let anything stop you!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a single father and my boys are still young (4 and 1) so that takes up most of my time for the moment. I'm planning to return to self-employment soon in the hope that I can become self-sufficient by the time my boys no longer need me! Until then it's nappies and school-runs!
I’m really good at
I'm a qualified military engineer so I'm pretty good with cars and the like, enjoy working on them too so I'll occasionally fix up a banger for some pocket money. I'd like to think I'm a pretty good dad but of course I have bad days like anyone else! I'm very good at computer games which is a shame as it's a pointless talent but I still enjoy it when I can!
The first things people usually notice about me
That I look like a tramp when I don't shave and a child when I do! There is however, a small window when I actually look ok :p
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't find much time to read these days but if I do it's either historical or fantasy, quite a contrast! Terry Pratchett and Tolkien are my favourite authors but I haven't read a Discworld book for years now!
I like most movies that don't centre around relationships (sorry girls!) horror, scifi and fantasy are my favourites and a zombie flick will always top the list! I've been watching the Walking dead since it started (read all the comics too) and there are a bunch of cartoons I'm guilty of enjoying too! Otherwise I like topical panel shows, half because they make me laugh and half because they keep me up to speed on the world!
I'm not a good cook so I LOVE takeout, couldn't live without pizza... Other than that I like everything that's bad for me but luckily I don't put on weight from it so I'm lucky so far!
Six things I could never do without
Pizza + Beer - usually together
Ice cream + B-movies -also together!
My computer + the internet - obviously together...

Lots of people put things like friends and family on here. Obviously my boys should be top of this list but they're not things :p
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I can do with my life other than raise my boys! Got some ideas but it goes without saying that none of them are going to be easy to get going.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home with the boys! I rarely have weekends to myself but of course I could easily change that if I had a good reason to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once obtained the callsign 'Underpants Munt' during my time in the airforce... And that's all I have to say about that...
You should message me if
If you find yourself asking what you can get out of life then message me because that's exactly how I feel. If you want to meet someone but don't know what exactly for then that's me too because if you don't try then you will NEVER know! If you enjoy movie nights then I might be the guy to do it with and if you miss eating out then I can help you there too!

Just do us both a favour and if you've got this far down my profile, send me a message. What have we got to lose? Besides, even if you read something that you hate about me, you still kept going till the end so lets chat and find out why...
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