I love music... a lot. I like discovering new music, playing with friends, writing songs, and seeing live shows. If you are a musician, I'm already attracted to you.
I enjoy being outside most of the time, hiking around or finding swimming holes/hot springs, seeing new places, and learning about ecology.
I'm naturally an introvert who has learned to live in an extroverted world. I love meeting people and I also need a large amount of quiet time.
I'm also passionate about music. I'm in the process of creating a band to play my own material, record an album, and play some live shows: it's going really well! I'm finishing another album from a previous band. I play guitar, drums, sing, and can pretend to play a smattering of other strings and percussion.
I like to travel and camp quite a bit.
I can learn music easily, and I am a skilled drummer and guitarist
I sometimes have crippling self doubt about my musical creative projects.
I'm great at making events and throwing parties.
I have a lot of anxiety about those events going well.
I can make friends easily.
I lose touch with those who are not geographically close to me.
I like to talk about things that make me and others uncomfortable. I find that people tend to grow and open up when we push our comfort zones.
I can go too far, and make people really uncomfortable. I am well seasoned when it comes to shooting myself in the foot when my foot is firmly entrenched in my mouth.
Books, poetry, and graphic Novels: The Prophet by Khalil Gibran, Harry Potter Series by J.K. Rowling, The Ocean at the end of the Lane by Neil Gaiman, poems by Mary Oliver, Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind (graphic novel, not the movie) by Miyazaki, Coyote Guide to Mentoring, Ode to Common Things by Pablo Neruda, The Sandman by Neil Gaiman, Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver, Jitterbug Perfume by Tom Robbins, anything by Byrd Bailor, Opening Up by Tristan Taormino, Sex Before Dawn by Jetha and Ryan,
I don't watch movies too much anymore, but here it is.
Movies: Harold and Maude, anything that makes me laugh, most things with Audrey Hepburn, most things by Miyazaki, Pulp Fiction, The Jungle Book (the older animated one), Abre Los Ojos, The Big Lebowski, O' Brother Where Art Thou, Snatch, The Princess Bride, The Secret of Nimh, The Secret Lives of Others, The Constant Gardner, Little Miss Sunshine, more...
TV: Stephen Universe, Battlestar Galactica, 6 Feet Under, Flight of the Concords, Orange is the New Black, Steve and Morty, The Wire, John Oliver Last Week Tonight, Parks and Recreation, 30 Rock.
Food: I love food. I'll try everything and enjoy most of it.
2. My eyes.
4. My people.
6. My sense of touch.
You have a question, or want to talk about non-monogamy.
You'd like to get coffee.
You are a fully realized adult human being who wins at life and owns their choices, and you still know how to play like a kid and have fun. A gem for sure.
You feel like you want to combat gender norm/stereotypes and be a female conversation initiator. You bold, charming, rebellious seahorse!
You want to go sky diving, and you'd like me to come along.