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My self-summary
Your basic INFP. Introspective and self-aware to the point of excessive rumination that can lead to intense one-on-one conversation. Looking for a date or a fling or a lifetime of adopting dogs- like I said, your basic INFP. I have trouble making decisions. I'm a successful young professional who still dreams of someday writing a novel, becoming an astrophysicist, saving Detroit from itself, teaching creative writing to teenagers, or something I haven't thought of yet. Also really bad at elevator pitches.
What I’m doing with my life
Dreaming of the day when my student loans are paid off so that I can feel more comfortable taking professional risks. In the meantime, working an awful lot as a management consultant. Pretty freaking good at it, too- but still getting comfortable with the shmoozy bizniss stuff.
I’m really good at
Returning calls from my mom 10 days later. Pondering the big questions. Ignoring the little questions. Thinking about the end of the world. Deciding to make brownies from scratch and then having them in the oven in 5 minutes flat.
The first things people usually notice about me
My mysterious aura? I don't know. Let's go with arm hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love sci-fi. I won't apologize for it. Deal with it. Three books you should read: Accelerando by Charles Stross. The Light of Other Days by Arthur C. Clarke and Stephen Baxter, and Hyperion by Dan Simmons. Oh, and for good measure throw in The Integral Trees by Larry Niven. Movies- I like to watch em once. Shows- Rupaul's Drag Race makes me happy. I'm currently somewhat obsessed with Dr. Who. Music- Roisin Murphy and Kate Bush seem to have stuck in my playlists for a few years. Food- I like to date guys who like pickles, because otherwise they go to waste at restaurants because I hate them.
Six things I could never do without
1. My best friend Katie, who is like the reason I'm who I am. 2. Cynicism (or you can call it healthy skepticism if that makes you more comfortable). 3. Documentaries about the Universe. 4. Coffee. 5. Frequent solitude. 6. A backup plan.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Cosmology. Why I'm so awkward. Why I think so much about how awkward I am. How to get away with yet more sleep. What the hell Jean Grey ever could have seen in Cyclops. Compound interest.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either out with friends singing karaoke (I LOVE IT and I'm only mildly ashamed) or staying in with a friend debating which movie to watch before settling on something that one of us certainly had no interest in but ultimately end up enjoying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have given up trying to quit diet cola.
You should message me if
You're into it.

Oh yeah! One other thing you should know about me: I'm into casual cuddling. That means that 1. I tend to get affectionate early but 2. it doesn't mean I want us to adopt a dog and wear matching sweaters. Or whatever it is that the gays do these days.
The two of us