Please set aside your "window shopping" and actually take the time to read my profile. Why? I am seeking just one incredible man. One that pays attention to details, one for whom communication is not asynchronous, one who completely embraces the idea of "finding me"! I am coming up on 4 years on OKC and on average three times a day I get a message that starts with either a cut and paste boiler plate or "my dear" or "beautiful" or "Hi pretty" et al, please don't. Not using my name confirms you haven't read the text I bothered to write to help both of us find one another - despite telling me you are intrigued by my profile.
My name is RIGHT HERE, the link should work, https://teresafritschi.wordpress.com/2014/07/17/teresa-fritschi-journeying-to-your-own-ithaca/
and with my name you can Google me to assure yourself that I am a real person - and that I am not going to catfish you. Obviously Googling me also tells you a lot more about who I am than this profile ever could! Despite my digital footprint I can assure you I am really normal.
I am probably going to drive you crazy over religion if you self-identify as a "god fearing Christian man" and if you list your Bible as one of the six things you can't live without. You are most likely to be highly offended by my Eastern philosophical based views on matters of spirituality and faith, so let me wish you well on your journey of finding love but it won't be with me.
I am a voracious reader, garden like a fiend and am largely sustainable, organic and eco-friendly. I can stretch a roasting chicken further than anyone might believe possible. I enjoy open water swimming, cycling, sailing, impromptu road trips to 'no where' and travel to places that are not humid and hot. I love prowling through antique shops and museums, adore the opera as well as good old fashioned rock and roll. If I haven't scared you off with this disclaimer (my feet are cold and despite thick socks need you to keep them warm) then you are exactly the kind of man I will genuinely appreciate.
Before leaving the United States (July 2015) I sold most of my things and put the balance in storage. I am in the contemporary term a 'digital nomad' and find myself ready for almost anything the universe offers - I would LOVE to enjoy a cup of tea, a glass of very good red wine or a lovely Single Malt Scotch and conversation with you to explore possibilities.
Please don't be shy - fill out your profile or answer at least some questions see whether we share at least a 75% compatibility match, 60% friend match. If we don't please do not write and attempt to 'talk me up', you should want someone highly compatible as much as I do!
The RIGHT MAN is NOT MARRIED nor seeking a polyamorous relationship, nor does he smoke, do drugs, or drink more than modestly. Guys with a dog a serious plus.
You don’t ‘need’ to have a woman in your life but want one again for the balance and stimulation the right one brings with her. You kiss with your eyes as well as your lips, especially if it's the inside of my wrist or the back of my hand! You don’t say ‘I love you’ every moment of every day but ‘say it’ in a thousand little gestures such as brushing a strand of hair out of a woman’s eyes, send flowers for no reason, present a kiss to the top of her head or near her ear, provide a hug even if she has a knife in her hand or is covered with wet mud from gardening.
Finest OKC compliment received to date.
"I was also amused by your profile and impressed by your ninja-diva-level self confidence."
So yes I am very self-aware and confident and if this is off-putting then swipe left! ;)
Expanding my consciousness spirituality and challenging those around me to "not hold the bouquet of flowers too tightly".
Being a friend and confidante (what's said in this room, stays in this room).
Recent past reads:
Patti Smith Just Kids and the entire Game of Thrones series, no interest in the television series.
Pulitzer Prize winning All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr
William Dalrymple Return of a King (Battle for Afghanistan, 1839 - 42)
Jack Cashill Ron Brown's Body
Diana Galbadon Voyager
The Man Who Quit Money by Mark Sundeen, The Great Arab Conquests by Hugh Kennedy
How the French Invented Love by Marilyn Yalom
White Lama: The Life of Tantric Yogi Theos Bernard, Tibet's Lost Emissary to the New World by Douglas Veenhof
Eugene Oneguine A Romance of Russian Life in Verse by Aleksandr Sergeevich Pushkin
Michael Ondaatje's The English Patient, (again)
The Forty Rules of Love: A Novel of Rumi by Elif Shafak (again)
The Agony and The Ecsatsy by Irving Stone
Omar Khayyam by Harold Lamb (again)
Robert Hellenga's The Sixteen Pleasures
In the interest of research for my 2nd book, have read all of these and more: Seductress: Women Who Ravished the World and Their Lost Art of Love and Swoon: Great Seducers and Why Women Love Them both by Betsy Prioleau, Grandes Horizontales : The Lives and Legends of Four Nineteenth-Century Courtesans by Virginia Rounding, Simply Irresistible: Unleash Your Inner Siren and Mesmerize Any Man, with Help from the Most Famous--and Infamous--Women in History by Ellen T. White, Courtesans: Money, Sex and Fame in the Nineteenth Century by Katie Hickman and The Circle of Eros: Sexuality in the Work of William Dean Howells
* A toothbrush (obvious), a pumice stone (not so obvious)
* Intellectual stimulation
* A garden
* My astonishing antique French bed
* Open water in which to swim/ sail, my bicycle preferably both