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My self-summary
I'm a lover, not a fighter. I know myself well enough at this point to know that I'd much rather focus on what is beautiful and beyond the ordinary than what is mundane. I'm not a pushover, but I'm also not one of those guys some woman are attracted to who is always a super-aggressive, "take charge" kind of person. I've got a strong libertarian-esque impulse in me whereby my default position is to let people pursue their own goals and I respect everyone's individuality, so I don't like imposing myself on other people...and neither do I like being imposed upon. Therefore, I look for individuals who are relatively self-contained and don't expect to find someone who will provide them with the energy they need to generate for themselves.

BTW, I'm not convinced that the match percentage process on here means a whole lot, so forgive me if I contact you with a lower percentage.
What I’m doing with my life
Cracking puns constantly.
I’m really good at
Ah...this is a very humble question designed to showcase one's humility I see.

I won't presume to speak on a subject matter on which only others may speak of. I don't wish to be a self-deceiver or braggart about things which I may be wrong about.

In other words...I'm good at avoiding questions.
The first things people usually notice about me
My sexy, prefrontal cortex. (Although my cerebellum ain't bad.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Blank Slate, Wheel of Time series, tons of philosophy books (especially of the continental variety) and psychology/social science books.

I don't really like many movies these days, especially those standard plot-driven ones. I prefer movies like The Fountain, I Heart Huckabees, The Tree of Life, etc.

I'm pretty specific in my music tastes, specifically of the "post-rock/post-metal" genre. Bands like Tool, Isis, Cult of Luna, as well as classic mid-90s bands like Alice in Chains, Soundgarden, etc.
Six things I could never do without
Six is sort of an arbitrary number, isn't it? And there is something about the phrasing of this prompt that is awkward to me...anyone else notice that? (By the way, isn't it funny how the word "awkward" is itself kind of awkward?)

I guess going by my response above, one thing I can't go without is questioning things. As I'm getting bored with this question, I will now proceed to ignore it and move on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Philosophy, love, pain, politics, possibilities, constraints, social negotiations, language, human psychology, religion, spirituality, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hunting for alligators. Or is it crocodiles? I always get the two confused with each other...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Admitting a private thing in public by definition makes it not private anymore, and therefore this prompt is contradictory.

And yes...I'm very fun at parties with this analytical attitude.
You should message me if
I love massages! Oh, wait...
The two of us