43 Anaheim, United States
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My self-summary
UPDATE: Currently seeming someone. We have not yet decided on Monogamous vs poly, but not likely to start a poly with someone we just met.

I'm a college graduate and part time aerialist. I am looking for true love, but I can enjoy a more casual relationship too. Each person fits differently with each other person, and I want to enjoy the uniqueness that is us, whatever that end up becoming. I’m a bit silly and unorthodox, but have a good life and good job, and am just seeking someone to share life’s moments with.
What I’m doing with my life
I’m actively into the Ren Faire, LARP and other costume scenes, but it doesn’t consume me. I find a fantastical escape makes life more meaningful. I work a standard 8 to 5, and look forward to the fun times in life, probably like the rest of us do. On the side I work at the Renaissance Faire as part of an aerialist group called Suspended Reality, as in Aerial acrobatics (think cirque du soleil, but not famous).
I enjoy Gothic/Industrial dance clubs, and attending, as well as performing in, live theatre. I enjoy just about anything performance related.
I definitely have a strong "geeky" side, but then doesn't everybody really? It's just a question of what you geek out about.
I’m really good at
I have a natural knack for massages, and really enjoy sharing that ability with others… also listening, making people laugh, dancing, and singing (especially in the shower) . I’m good at being honest, and apparently I’m chatty if tipsy. Good cuddler too :)
The first things people usually notice about me
My long curly hair, unless I’m performing, then probably my horns. Yes… definitely the horns.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I’m very passionate about Science Fiction and Fantasy, my favs include:
Jim Butcher
Terry Pratchett
Neil Gaiman
Anne McCaffrey
Alan Moore

Lord of the Rings
Star Wars
Fifth Element
Princess Bride
Boon Dock Saints

Babylon 5
Star Trek
True Blood
Game of Thrones


Jekyll & Hyde
Les Miserable
VNV Nation
Nine Inch Nails
Apoptygma Berzerk
Linkin Park
The Killers
Recently have discovered Thirty Seconds to Mars and Imagine Dragons
The six things I could never do without
Dr Pepper
My friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much little kindnesses can go a long way to making everyone happier. How to move past the metaphorical walls we build up around ourselves and get to truly know one another
On a typical Friday night I am
Hopefully some LARP, Ren Faire, Festival or some other costumed event
Perhaps at a friend’s house playing some games and drinking a little
Or dancing at Das Bunker (a club in LA)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There is nothing too private that I wouldn’t share with my lover.
You should message me if
If I’ve piqued your interest enough to want to get to know me better. I’m seeking someone with passion, intelligence, honesty, and a good sense of humor. Having a geeky side is encouraged. Don’t be shy! Let’s chat.