NPhxPhil
54 Phoenix, United States
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My self-summary
So hard to describe yourself, isn't it? Trying this again. This is still a work in-progress. OK, some of the basics, at least:

I'm originally from NY, (New City) raised there and in Quebec, which I love. Lived a number of years in Plattsburgh, NY by Lake Champlain (beautiful countryside). Moved to Arizona in '89 and have been here ever since.

I'm a good-natured man, come across as a bit quiet until you get to know me. I'm affectionate and enjoy showing the woman I'm with I'm happy she's there - whether it's that spontaneous kiss in the checkout line or waiting to get into the restaurant, holding hands, little touches and all the nice little things that show each other we're glad to be together. I miss that.

I enjoy cycling, primarily road cycling, hiking ( which I haven't done in way too long; miss Camelback and Squaw Peak ). Motorcycling: just recently bought a new one after a 3 year hiatus, loving getting reacquainted. Love getting out and taking in new sights, shows, plays, (yes - even opera), museums, etc. Would love to find that special someone to do it all with.

"I wish I was a sentimental ornament you hung on,
the Christmas tree,
I wish I was the star that went on top,
... I wish I was the souvenir you kept your house key on"
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to live a healthy, fulfilling life.
I’m really good at
Kissing ( really one of life's true pleasures )
I make a pretty mean garlic shrimp & pasta (though it's really been a while)
The first things people usually notice about me
My height, for some reason, though I'm only 6' 1".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music:
Pink Floyd, old-school Genesis ( and Peter Gabriel ), Blues to Springsteen to Joy Division to R.L Burnside to Zeppelin. Etta James, Robert Plant, Patricia Barber, Chopin, Dean Martin, Ted Hawkins, Chris Isaak, Roxy Music/Bryan Ferry, Mozart, Dead Can Dance, Jane Siberry, Patti Smith & more.

Books / Authors ( to name a few ):
The Road, The Grapes of Wrath, The Alienist, To Kill a Mockingbird, The Kite Runner, In the Woods, The Terror, Pillars of the Earth, The Stand, The Name of the Wind, Love Minus Eighty, Defenders. Tana French, Ken Follett, Steinbeck

Food:
Love Mexican / Southwest (Via De Los Santos / Richardson's ), Pizza People Pub on Central, any number of coffee/breakfast spots - Luci's at the Orchard, Grotto Cafe, Sip, etc. Italian, Chicken, Seafood, Sushi. Wine. Russian vodka & cranberry, Margaritas.....oh yes, margaritas.

Movies:
Too many to list but anything with Cary Grant, or classic movies in general. Arsenic and Old Lace, The Quiet Man, North by Northwest, Separate Tables, Shane, Goodfellas, Lost in Translation, so many more: I'm sure I'll add as I go along. .

Foreign films: I really like the differences from typical American films, which are too often formulaic. Not that I don't get into a good action or drama flick, but the diversity of foreign films' focus appeals to me - Amelie. Pan's Labyrinth, Jesus of Montreal, The Station Agent, Bonjour Monsieur Schlomi, Antonia's Line.

TV:
I've recently cut Cable so now it's mostly Hulu, HBONow, and such. But favorites include:

Sons of Anarchy, The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Stranger Things, House of Cards, Justified, Deadwood, Firefly ( and Serenity ), Daredevil, Battlestar Galactica, The Bridge, Gotham, The Blacklist, The Americans, Peaky Blinders, Marco Polo, Arrested Development, Boardwalk Empire, Carnivale, The Shield, Big Bang Theory, Modern Family, The Ricky Gervais Show, Parenthood, The Daily Show, Rome, Monty Python
The six things I could never do without
( In no particular order, a few more than six...)

My morning coffee, ground whole bean / french press : only way to go
Hot showers
Touch
Love
Cycling
Music
Motorcycling
Good books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything and nothing. Are bathrooms the only places people can take selfies for dating sites? Is there a rule on this? How I could live in Italy. Or Corsica: I NEED to see Corsica, lol. When I'm going to meet that special one, been waiting a HELL of a long time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Ha! Well, I'm on here right now, so.... LOL. Usually at home catching up on the Netflix/Hulu/HBOGo queue. Or maybe out for a drink / dinner with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sing along to my iTunes library while playing Freecell (or Ruzzle lately) to relax
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