I am very loyal, dependable, respectful, punctual, caring, sensitive, and don't have a temper. People say I make them feel comfortable and at ease. I am a Native New Yorker which apparently is quite rare. I'm youthful, without being immature. I'm a bit of a walking paradox: I'm optimistic, yet realistic which can be quite the balancing act at times. I try to surround myself with people that have integrity and character.
I am a ENTJ on the Myers-Briggs personality assessment test.
My friends turn to me when they need advice. They say I should have been a therapist or a stand-up comedian. I can solve your problem, and then make you laugh about it afterwards. I have a lot of patience and no temper. I am an open book as far as questions go and will be 100% truthful. I follow through on things. I never forget Birthdays or special occasions. If I have an appointment with someone, it would take wild horses for me to miss it. I respect peoples time, and I expect the same in return.
I do my best to stay positive, and I am developing my spirituality. I also have a sensitive side, that pops up from time to time. I don't like arrogance. I don't like when people are dishonest, or flaky. I don't want drama or head games. I think it's important to be connected to your partner, but also allow each other space. I am neater than most guys, lol. I hold my Mother in very high regard. I'm very comfortable in various social climates. I can go to an Opera, the Museum, or go bowling. I have a spiritual side and believe everything happens for a reason. I believe in Karma, and think that people should be respectful towards others. One of my dealbreakers is smoking. I've met girls that say I'm really not a smoker because I only smoke when I drink,lol. This still means you are a smoker, it's like almost pregnant! By the way, please leave recent pictures. I am getting a lot of responses without photos or it was a pic of them 40 pounds ago, lol.
Thanks : ) -Adam
I am also a Business Investor
Poker, Words With Friends, Backgammon,Running,Skiing,Pool.
Reading people, giving sound advice. Always being there for friends.
Trying to learn new things,Making people laugh, Helping friends vent. Making good analogies.I've been told that I give awesome massages ; ) I have been a Matchmaker for several of my friends!
I can Cook and have gotten rave reviews on my Steak, but I hate doing dishes, lol
Also, I have been told....my eyes : )
The Road to Character,The Alchemist, The Secret, The Exquisite Risk, Power of Now, Blink, The Power of Your Subconscious Mind,Fooled by Randomness,The Power of Habit,Dalai Lama's Book of Wisdom,Psychology
Currently I'm reading Emotional Intelligence 2.0
5 to 7, Godfather I and II,Silence of the Lambs,Searching for Bobby Fischer,Cruel Intentions,Bourne Ultimatum, The Sting, Rounders, Serendipity, Zoolander
80's-Depeche Mode, New Order,The Cure,Police,U2
Classic Rock-Stones,Floyd,The Who,Zeppelin
Alternative,Techno/Trance, currently I'm into Metric,Safetysuit,Anberlin,
TV-Shark Tank,Ray Donovan,Homeland, The Americans,Californication,House of Cards, House of Lies, Mad Men,The Mindy Project,Family Guy,Big Bang Theory, Magic City
Food:Italian,French,Indian,Middle Eastern,Thai- Anything Spicy!
I also have a Sweet tooth. gelato,canolis,pastry,etc
Tea- Hot or Iced
I carry an atomizer of cologne so I always smell good!
When it comes to apples, I only like the Green ones
Wow.... I'm really baring my Soul here! : )
I believe that quality relationships should consist of individuals that are simpatico, yet possess their own sense of individualism.
You don't have kids or they are grown and out of the house. Younger children require a lot of attention and can make a relationship too challenging. I will explain what happened to me if we start talking.
Bonus points if you have Culinary Skills!
You don't smoke!
Also, please don't say that you live in NYC because you work or spend time here.
This has been an issue in the past.
If you are witty,sarcastic or sassy, you are gonna rack up bonus points with me. : )
You are generally Optimistic and have a Positive Energy! : )
Thanks for reading my essay!