First off, yes, I'm "seeing someone"...I'm in a happy, healthy, non-traditional relationship. Our primary situation is that we play with couples together (both soft & full swap) and I play with women on my own as he travels a ton for work and has given me his blessing to do so. We also do the occasional MFM (but I/we are very, very picky about this) and ultimately, one day I'd love to give him a FFM, but that's going to take a special lady. I have his permission to act as unicorn to couples now and then as well, but truth be told, I did it once and am not super into being with men when he isn't around, so again, it'd take just the right chemistry and attraction for me to be into that. Just want to be up front in what I'm looking for here. We are always safe, we have VERY open lines of communication and we always know everything about what is happening in this area of our life, so no, I'm not looking to sneak off with a secret lover or meet up with single guys on my own. If this sounds like something you would enjoy trying out, let me know. And if still interested, read on...
Born & raised SoCal girl who loves to laugh, dance, write, cook, spend time with family and friends, Central Park picnics, shopping, football and wings, singing loudly in the shower, car or anywhere else, eating, and snuggling. I am: a dreamer, a fashionista, educated, a good story-teller, a survivor, an animal and kid-lover, outgoing, a chatterbox, sexy, a giggler, goofy, happy, and blessed. I also happen to be certifiably funny (Chris Rock called me "f**king hilarious," true story.)
I've lived in NYC long enough to feel like a New Yorker and I thrive on the hustle & bustle, the diversity, the amazing food, and the complete and total access to practically anything you can think of (which can be dangerous).
My loved ones mean everything to me, and I try to surround myself with them as much as possible. I love putting together events/gatherings from picnics in the park to brunks (drunk brunch) to day jaunts out of the city & much more. I also dedicate time to charity work including serving as the event chair for an exceptional charity, my recent alumni leadership committee and chairing the NYC Chargers fan group/bar (huge sports nut). I'm nurturing by nature and love my job as a family assistant as it allows me to use my (big ;) ) brain and spread my wings but also spend time with adorable munchkins, make a positive impact on their lives AND I get to let out my inner spaz and it's not only embraced, it's applauded. ;-)
I have an affinity for sky high heels, a medium rare steak, a good whiskey, and a fantastic smile (also, apparently, parentheses) and I'm always ready to have some fun.