NYCJess
37 Manhattan, United States
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My self-summary
I will not reply to messages that simply say "hi," "hey," or "wassup?" I don't need a novel, but if you don't acknowledge you've read my profile and understand my situation, you will be deleted.

First off, yes, I'm "seeing someone"...I'm in a happy, healthy, non-traditional relationship. Our primary situation is that we play with couples together (both soft & full swap) and I play with women on my own as he travels a ton for work and has given me his blessing to do so. We also do the occasional MFM (but I/we are very, very picky about this) and ultimately, one day I'd love to give him a FFM, but that's going to take a special lady. I have his permission to act as unicorn to couples now and then as well, but truth be told, I did it once and am not super into being with men when he isn't around, so again, it'd take just the right chemistry and attraction for me to be into that. Just want to be up front in what I'm looking for here. We are always safe, we have VERY open lines of communication and we always know everything about what is happening in this area of our life, so no, I'm not looking to sneak off with a secret lover or meet up with single guys on my own. If this sounds like something you would enjoy trying out, let me know. And if still interested, read on...

Born & raised SoCal girl who loves to laugh, dance, write, cook, spend time with family and friends, Central Park picnics, shopping, football and wings, singing loudly in the shower, car or anywhere else, eating, and snuggling. I am: a dreamer, a fashionista, educated, a good story-teller, a survivor, an animal and kid-lover, outgoing, a chatterbox, sexy, a giggler, goofy, happy, and blessed. I also happen to be certifiably funny (Chris Rock called me "f**king hilarious," true story.)

I've lived in NYC long enough to feel like a New Yorker and I thrive on the hustle & bustle, the diversity, the amazing food, and the complete and total access to practically anything you can think of (which can be dangerous).

My loved ones mean everything to me, and I try to surround myself with them as much as possible. I love putting together events/gatherings from picnics in the park to brunks (drunk brunch) to day jaunts out of the city & much more. I also dedicate time to charity work including serving as the event chair for an exceptional charity, my recent alumni leadership committee and chairing the NYC Chargers fan group/bar (huge sports nut). I'm nurturing by nature and love my job as a family assistant as it allows me to use my (big ;) ) brain and spread my wings but also spend time with adorable munchkins, make a positive impact on their lives AND I get to let out my inner spaz and it's not only embraced, it's applauded. ;-)

I have an affinity for sky high heels, a medium rare steak, a good whiskey, and a fantastic smile (also, apparently, parentheses) and I'm always ready to have some fun.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it to its fullest.
I’m really good at
making people laugh, baking, taking care of people, trivia games, and having a good time doing just about anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
My easy smile and my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(A) Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe, Harry Potter, chick lit books, The Hunger Games, John Steinbeck, short stories by Poe and Hawthorne, Jane Austen, autobiographies. (B) Goonies, The Princess Bride, Garden State, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Motorcycle Diaries, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Ghostbusters, The Shawshank Redemption, The Breakfast Club, cheezy dance movies, comedies (Old School, 40 Year Old Virgin, The Hangover, Bridesmaids, etc.) (C) Almost ALL kinds...excluding heavy metal and hardcore rap. I have a diverse collection ranging from Stevie Wonder to John Mayer to Usher to Broadway soundtracks. (D) LOVE food of all kinds too, some of my faves include: Thai, curries, Mexican (but REAL Mexican from CA or Mex), sushi, and my all-time favorite; a nice steak and potatoes.
The six things I could never do without
My family, my friends, laughter, new experiences, good eats and sexual open-mindedness/freedom.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I want my life to take me and where I want to take my life, stupid little things.
On a typical Friday night I am
out with friends; eating, drinking, and making merry or snuggled on the couch, pigging out on take out and binge-watching Netflix with my guy.
You should message me if
Think you can handle me.
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