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My self-summary
I've spent so much time trying to figure this all out, and I've waxed poetically about who I am and what I want. Suddenly it's become a little more clear.

I'm not a complicated man.
I have the same wants and needs as a lot of people. All I really want is to find someone who loves me for who I am, my tragic flaws and my weird little quirks included. I'm a good person with a heart so big that it worries me. I'm honest, and I'm loyal, and I'm one hundred percent genuine.

I just want to meet someone who makes me smile, and will go on long walks with me. I want someone to drink iced coffee with in the summer, and hot coffee with in the winter. I don't need you to be perfect, or have washboard abs, or make a ton of money. I just want you to be nice. And honest. And hopefully the rest will work out in the end.
What I’m doing with my life
Just moved from NYC to Southern California. Writing. Blogging. Taking walks. Reading. Growing. Learning how to be a better person. Accepting new challenges. Becoming the person I've always dreamed of being. Putting the finishing touches on my novel, and working on developing a television series (!).
I’m really good at
A lot of things, if I do say so myself. I'm witty as hell and a great conversationalist. I've been called "funny" often, and I'm pretty sure that's accurate. I'm also a great dinner date (see: ravenous pig).
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm usually smiling. My blue eyes. My laugh. My tattoos.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: PJ Harvey. The Raveonettes. Morrissey. Blonde Redhead. Aimee Mann. Gossip. Bjork. Hole. The Cure. The Kills. Fiona Apple. Florence + The Machine. Goldfrapp. Lykke Li. Marianne Faithful. Metric. Roisin Murphy. Morcheeba. Peaches. Robyn. Skunk Anansie. St. Vincent. Suede. Yeah Yeah Yeah's. MS MR. The xx. Lorde.

Books: Chuck Palahniuk. Edna St. Vincent Millay. Charles Bukowski. Brett Easton Ellis. Tom Robins. Miranda July.

Movies: Amelie. The Princess & The Warrior. 2 Days in Paris. Fierce Creatures. 200 Cigarettes. Great Expectations. Fantastic Mr. Fox. Jawbreaker. Me, You, And Everyone We Know. Daydream Nation. Tiny Furniture. Melancholia. Party Girl. Magnolia. Frances Ha. Drop Dead Gorgeous. The Future.

Food: Everything. Particularly Indian, Ethiopian, Vegetarian, Mexican, Vegan, Meat.
Six things I could never do without
Washington Square Park.
Jasper (the cat).
Springtime in NY. know what?
I could live without a lot of things.
I'm very adaptable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to fit into this new life in sunny California without looking like a tourist. Short stories to write. Carnivorous plants and why they exist. Chic black clothing that I want to buy but don't. The future. Where to go for dinner. California. My family. Music and how it affects me. Writing a memoir. Is it warm enough for a walk? How to improve. How to keep sane. How to be a free spirit. How to be honest. How to follow my heart. How to put myself in a position to be in the same room as Miranda July.
On a typical Friday night I am
Same thing we do every night, Pinky: Try to take over the world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty recently single. Gave my heart away to the wrong person who didn't want it, so I'm still kind of burnt. More than anything, I'm looking for dates and friends right now. BUT I want to meet people who actually want to be open to the possibility of something more. I'm open minded, and you should be too. Just be a nice person, and be yourself.
You should message me if
You aren't a scumbag.
The two of us