N_Modulation
32 Seattle, United States
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My self-summary
I am a fluctuating and evolving human.

I'm looking for people who believe friendships should cross boundaries; who think that love, sex, kink and friendship can exist in a bubble bound by mutual compassion and consideration. People who have time to devote to knowing someone and have an interest in knowing the community that surrounds me.

I am non-monogamous and my home is open, we have a complex web of hearts and bodies that interact with ours and my primary goal is to keep those members of our family and extended family emotionally and physically safe.

I tend to prioritize my partners, their time and space are incredibly important to me. I prefer dating people who prioritize the people in their lives, tertiary, secondary or primary (if you choose to use those labels). I'm not presently oversaturated but I am in a space where I move slow.

I do best with people who are somewhat introverted, who value staying in and watching a movie under a warm blanket - but who can also hop over to a bonfire, sing songs and likely make mischief. Co-working is also something I love, as I'm deeply devoted to my career and education but also like to take breaks for random acts of intimacy and share space.

I am a student and professionally I deal with both beginning of life and end of life work. I read a lot, I watch movies and I have a deep an unending love for humans, their stories and their experiences.

I love nothing more than making maps with my fingertips and watching the people I love open up and share with me. I am both a lover and a fighter, I am passionate and I love fearlessly, honestly and enthusiastically.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a day job working as an aid for extended care and hospice patients. I'm working towards a CNM and a MPH.

I'm also creating, constantly. I've been part of a few art shows and I plan on doing more.

I also help coordinate first aid for the local burns and have a love of working art projects and shared experiences.

I'm an over achiever and an artist.
I’m really good at
Being endlessly curious. Cooking, eating, laughing, drinking, over thinking, writing, talking, dancing and screaming at inopportune moments. Helping people find out incredible things about themselves (at least, that is my favorite thing).
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm curvy, tall, covered in tattoos and such.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read quite a bit; equally fiction and non-fiction.
I am quite fond of the following titles:
- The Name of the Wind & The Wise Mans fear - Patrick Rothfuss
- The Glass books of the dream eaters - series by Gordon Dahlquist
- King Rat - by China Mieville
- The Lord of the Rings - J. R. R. Tolkien
- Body Farm - Jefferson Bass
- Geek Love - Katherine Dunn
- Saga (Comics)
etc..etc..etc...

Movies
- Le Pacte des loups
- The city of Lost children
- The Fall
- Amélie
- Equilibrium
- How to Train your Dragon, The Emperors New Grove and The Incredibles (don't judge, you know you love them too)
- The Harry Potter movies (when I need comfort)
- All of Mizaki's movies
- Anything Tarenteno touches
etc.

Music
- Jason Webly
- Tom Waits
- Amanda Palmer
- Tool
- Beats Antique
- Kultur Shock
- Deftones
- Gogol Bordello
- Metric
- Beth Orton
- Orbital
- Opera, I listen to Opera and I like it
Everything else.

Food
I love cooking with and for people. Sharing a kitchen with someone is a bit of a relentless joy. My father was a chef and as a result I have developed a deep love of exploring flavors and textures. I'm predominantly vegan and attempting to be much more strict about it than I have been in the past.
The six things I could never do without
Movement, dance, love, openness, desire and coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm a devoted over thinker.
I find humans super fascinating, I love relationship dynamics, the psychology of kink and all other things that make us incredibly human.
I am and always have been a medical nerd and I dabble in a love of history but especially like listening to people who hold it as a passion.
I love to learn.
On a typical Friday night I am
Most fridays are either spent curled up with someone I love or surrounded by my people, playing games, building fires and laughing more than is reasonable.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The nature of the internet is such that all things private eventually come out anyway. However, if you're so curious about my private things - you should ask me.
You should message me if
Realistically you can message me for any reason what so ever.
I'll respond if I:
A) Have time
B) You've proven yourself interesting enough to message back
C) If you strike my fancy. I do like fancy things.
D) You might interact well with my people - because my people are intrinsic to my sanity, they are also amazing.
E) You're unafraid of your own heart.
F) you enjoy random conversation.
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