I'm looking for people who believe friendships should cross boundaries; who think that love, sex, kink and friendship can exist in a bubble bound by mutual compassion and consideration.
I am non-monogamous and my home is open, we have a complex web of hearts and bodies that interact with ours and my primary goal is to keep those members of our family and extended family emotionally and physically safe.
I tend to prioritize my partners, their time and space are incredibly important to me. I tend to prefer dating people who prioritize the people in their lives, tertiary, secondary or primary (if you choose to use those labels).
I am a student and professionally I deal with both beginning of life and end of life work. I read a lot, I watch movies and I have a deep an unending love for humans, their stories and their experiences.
I love nothing more than making maps with my fingertips and watching the people I love open up and share with me. I am both a lover and a fighter, I am passionate and I love fearlessly, honestly and enthusiastically.
I'm also creating, constantly. I've been part of a few art shows and I plan on doing more.
I have a pretty solid camp that is part of INW and do a lot of work to keep them going, build projects and Do.
Like over achievers? Like artists? Believe in doing? how you doin? :wink:
I am quite fond of the following titles:
- The Name of the Wind & The Wise Mans fear - Patrick Rothfuss
- The Glass books of the dream eaters - series by Gordon Dahlquist
- King Rat - by China Mieville
- The Lord of the Rings - J. R. R. Tolkien
- Body Farm - Jefferson Bass
- The Poisoner's Handbook - Deborah Blum
- Hellboy and BPRD (Comics)
- Saga (Comics)
I watch a lot of movies and I listen to music constantly. I don't have a lot of specific favorites, but I have themes. If you asked me directly, I'd say the closest I could come would be:
- Le Pacte des loups
- The city of Lost children
- The Fall
- How to Train your Dragon, The Emperors New Grove and The Incredibles (don't judge, you know you love them too)
- The Harry Potter movies (when I need comfort)
- All of Mizaki's movies
- Anything Tarenteno touches
- Jason Webly
- Tom Waits
- Amanda Palmer
- Beats Antique
- Kultur Shock
- Gogol Bordello
- Beth Orton
- Opera, I listen to Opera and I like it
Food is what brings us together as humans, I love feeding people, I love cooking and creating food. I'm mostly vegetarian with vegan leanings - but food is also experience. I'm not keen on turning down experience.
I'll respond if I:
A) Have time
B) You've proven yourself interesting enough to message back
C) If you strike my fancy. I do like fancy things.
D) You might interact well with my people - because my people are intrinsic to my sanity, they are also amazing.
E) You're unafraid of your own heart.