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My self-summary
I am a fluctuating and evolving human.

I'm looking for people who believe friendships should cross boundaries; who think that love, sex, kink and friendship can exist in a bubble bound by mutual compassion and consideration.

I am non-monogamous and my home is open, we have a complex web of hearts and bodies that interact with ours and my primary goal is to keep those members of our family and extended family emotionally and physically safe.

I tend to prioritize my partners, their time and space are incredibly important to me. I tend to prefer dating people who prioritize the people in their lives, tertiary, secondary or primary (if you choose to use those labels).

I am a student and professionally I deal with both beginning of life and end of life work. I read a lot, I watch movies and I have a deep an unending love for humans, their stories and their experiences.

I love nothing more than making maps with my fingertips and watching the people I love open up and share with me. I am both a lover and a fighter, I am passionate and I love fearlessly, honestly and enthusiastically.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a day job working as an aid for extended care and hospice patients. I run two businesses and I'm a student pursuing CNM and a MPH.

I'm also creating, constantly. I've been part of a few art shows and I plan on doing more.

I have a pretty solid camp that is part of INW and do a lot of work to keep them going, build projects and Do.

Like over achievers? Like artists? Believe in doing? how you doin? :wink:
I’m really good at
Being endlessly curious. Cooking, eating, laughing, drinking, over thinking, writing, talking, dancing and screaming at inopportune moments. Helping people find out incredible things about themselves (at least, that is my favorite thing).
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm curvy, tall, covered in tattoos and such.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot - equally fiction and non-fiction.
I am quite fond of the following titles:
- The Name of the Wind & The Wise Mans fear - Patrick Rothfuss
- The Glass books of the dream eaters - series by Gordon Dahlquist
- King Rat - by China Mieville
- The Lord of the Rings - J. R. R. Tolkien
- Body Farm - Jefferson Bass
- The Poisoner's Handbook - Deborah Blum
- Hellboy and BPRD (Comics)
- Saga (Comics)

Movies/Music -
I watch a lot of movies and I listen to music constantly. I don't have a lot of specific favorites, but I have themes. If you asked me directly, I'd say the closest I could come would be:
- Le Pacte des loups
- The city of Lost children
- The Fall
- Amélie
- Equilibrium
- How to Train your Dragon, The Emperors New Grove and The Incredibles (don't judge, you know you love them too)
- The Harry Potter movies (when I need comfort)
- All of Mizaki's movies
- Anything Tarenteno touches

- Jason Webly
- Tom Waits
- Amanda Palmer
- Tool
- Beats Antique
- Kultur Shock
- Deftones
- Gogol Bordello
- Metric
- Beth Orton
- Orbital
- Opera, I listen to Opera and I like it
Everything else.

Food is what brings us together as humans, I love feeding people, I love cooking and creating food. I'm mostly vegetarian with vegan leanings - but food is also experience. I'm not keen on turning down experience.
The six things I could never do without
Movement, dance, love, openness, desire and coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything! I over think, I'm pretty sure over thinking is a trait that most artists and writers are afflicted with. I think too much until I get the thoughts out - and that either means long conversations about everything and nothing or me covered in paint and smelling like smoke.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either: Spending a quiet night with my partners, or surrounded by friends drinking, laughing and generally being merry....or running off to go work (birth worker).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The nature of the internet is such that all things private eventually come out anyway. However, if you're so curious about my private things - you should ask me.
You should message me if
Realistically you can message me for any reason what so ever.
I'll respond if I:
A) Have time
B) You've proven yourself interesting enough to message back
C) If you strike my fancy. I do like fancy things.
D) You might interact well with my people - because my people are intrinsic to my sanity, they are also amazing.
E) You're unafraid of your own heart.