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My self-summary
I'm in one of those intermediary phases of life where a lot of things I once considered important have become inconsequential. Subsequently, I've developed new priorities. I don't feel l can accurately provide a succinct blurb to convey who I "am," but I can tell you about what's going on in my life.

I stopped drinking and doing drugs in 2016 since then I've learned that I'm actually really sensitive--who would have thought? I don't have a huge issue with people who choose to drink, but it's not my thing and I don't have much interest in hanging out at bars. What do I do for fun you ask? Generally interested in good conversation--I'm often complimented for my conversation skills, reading philosophy, as well as going to see concerts. You will definitely catch me moshing if some solid black metal comes to town. Additionally, my partner and I like to attend bdsm/kink parties. Feel free to message me about my kinks. Also, yes, I am in an open relationship; ask me any questions you'd like. Don't worry, not really looking for a unicorn.

Career-wise I am focused on succeeding in the tech world. I've narrowed down my interests to machine learning and quantitative finance, but I'm very much a novice at both and trying to become gainfully employed doing the aforementioned without having to enter the racket that is grad school.

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What I’m doing with my life
Working on my programming skills so that I'm a bit more valuable in the job market. Developing financial literacy. Providing consensual, yet violent displays of affection.

Update: SAT/ACT tutor now, still figuring out the above but student loans don't care about me finding my passion
I’m really good at
Taking a pretentious interest in "low brow" art/media. Shitting on people for making "high brow" art/media inaccessible. Rationalizing inconsistencies.
The first things people usually notice about me
The most common response is that I'm "lost in my own world". Others seem to think I'm gay, I prefer fabulous, it's probably due to my flawless skin, or comments like this.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books: The Futurica Trilogy, Cosmos, Thus Spoke Zarathustra, The Singularity is Near, A Clockwork Orange, Infinite Jest, Foundation, East of Eden, other stuff.

(I also read a lot of female authors, but primarily in philosophy. My favorite would be Donna Haraway).

My favorite movies: Good Will Hunting, Dope, Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Rounders, Pi, A Nightmare on Elm Street, and too many more to name, but also anything by Joss Whedon

My favorite music: I'm pretty into hip hop, black metal, and electronically produced music right now. Some of my favorites would be Tera Melos, Giraffes? Giraffes!, Grimes, A$AP Rocky, Vince Staples, Full of Hell, milo, A Tribe Called Quest, Brand New, Taake, Emperor, Behemoth, and random spotify playlists filled with acid/deep house.

Favorite Television shows:
I recently deleted my Netflix account because I was disatisfied with my career progress, but these were my favorite shows:

Buffy the Vampire Slayer/Angel, Game of Thrones, Sense8, Breaking Bad, Battlestar Galactica, Doctor Who (but seriously, so much Doctor Who), Bojack Horseman, House of Cards.

I also like anime/manga/comic books; I don't care if you think that's lame.

(Currently reading: Saga, Sandman, Buffy Season 8/9, One Piece, Kingdom, Attack on Titan, and My Hero Academia)

Favorite food: Mutter Paneer or Arroz con Gandules
Six things I could never do without
Music. My laptop. Learning new things. Delicious food. Good Conversation. Random objects to fiddle with when I'm supposed to be paying attention.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Disruptive technologies, politics, sadism, my career.
On a typical Friday night I am
Reading political or technology blogs and binge eating pizza
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I enjoy Bubblegum J-pop without the slightest bit of irony. Oh, and I sent my only begotten son to die for your sins.
You should message me if
**If you feel your personality and interests could be beneficial to my life or vice versa.

**You know it's the 21st century and meeting people on dating platforms isn't stigmatized anymore, so you don't need me to make up some bullshit story.

**If you think I'm hot, I can be shallow too if I must.
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