Nali85
31 Berlin, Germany
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My self-summary
Some people see this test as interesting and I don't want to miss an opportunity to tell the world that I am INTJ X)
I would describe myself as a person (of color), who is:
- <3
-very sensitive
- most emotional online, rather distant in real life
-Black and proud
-ideologically close to black feminism, womanism
- mostly empathic
- living virtually very comfortable in my ivory tower called "Facebook"
-maybe a little bit distant
-someone, who says things straight( if I want to or not - I just can't say things in a smooth or diplomatic way)
-impulsive
-flat sense of humour
-self ironic
-smartphone addicted
-Facebook addicted
... to be continued

P.S. OkCupid says, that I am really bad mannered.I have no idea how they come to this conclusion because I'm actually a quite polite person! .. I don't really think, that I am bad mannered ... Am I?
What I’m doing with my life
- playing computer games (League Of Legends, Starcraft 2, Star Wars Battlefront, Left 4 Dead, Rome 2, Cities Skylines,...)
- making music on the computer
-blogging (Aioon - Arriving In The Future)
- going out and (doing something, that looks like) dancing in the club
- watching movies in the cinema
- to argue about social hierarchies like religion, politics,race, gender, sex, body, shade,...
I’m really good at
- loosing computer games and cursing the crap out of my screen
- philosophical/sociological/ethical/... discussions
-discussions about (Black) futurism
The first things people usually notice about me
my big beautiful natural curly hair, my height and that I am Black with green eyes.
And:
"Do you play basketball?"
"Do you play mini golf? Get the fuck out of my face!"
I'm serious: If you ask this question you'll have messed up and no I won't answer this question nowhere. What tall people do with their bodies is not a decision we're obliged to share with random short people .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books / Bücher:
- Frantz Fanon: The Wretched Of The Earth / Die Verdammten dieser Erde
- Noah Sow: Deutschland Schwarz Weiß
- Mutlu Ergün: Kara Günlük - Die geheimen Tagebücher des Sesperado
- Grada Kilomba: Plantation Memories
- Frank Schätzing: Der Schwarm
- William Gibbson: Neuromancer-Trilogie
- J.R.R. Tolkien: The Lord Of The Rings / Der Herr der Ringe
- Patrick Rothfuss: Der Name des Windes
- Div. Stephen King

Movies:
-Malcolm X
-The Hunger Games
-IRobot
-American Beauty
-Miami Vice
-Little Children
-Sideways
-The Descent
-Stieg Larsson: The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo (Trilogie)(Swedish Version)
-Kingdom Of Heaven
-Fight Club
-The Expendables 2

Music:
-Afrobeat <3
- orchestral filmscores / orchestrale Filmmusik (Hans Zimmer, James Newton Howard, Harry Gregson-Williams,...)
- Lounge Music, Chill Out
- Breakbeat, Big Beat (Prodigy, Stanton Warriors,..)
- HipHop
Not really listening but open to:
-Metal, Industrial, Gothic, Techno ("Schranz"), Speedcore, Breakcore, a little RnB and House
The six things I could never do without
Friends
Online Games
Facebook
Smartphone
Various African music styles (Afrobeat <3,...)
Black pride
I spend a lot of time thinking about
At the moment I'm spending a lot of time thinking about polyamory, sexism, racism and politics. At the moment I am questioning my cis- male, more or less straight and shadeistic privileges. Except this questionI also think how I could become more happy in my life - not that I am unhappy now but there is still quite some potential.
Except this I have a big mess in my head consisting of very spontaneous philosophical, sociological and psychological questions and thoughts I sometimes spent time thinking about.
On a typical Friday night I am
-out doing something that could be interpreted as dancing
-playing computer games
- chilling with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
-I've got an ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder)
-Probably have parts of the autism spectrum
-a good and intense kiss makes me willing to do EVERYTHING!
-I HATE this Quentin Tarantino and I dont give a f**** that most people love him!
You should message me if
- if you're Black
- if you are a person of color and you're aware of your position in the racist hierarchy (Hint: "We are all in the same struggle" is DEFINETELLY the wrong attitude)
- if you're on the autism spectrum
- if you have an ADHD
- you're highly sensitive
- if you're womanist
- if your white: At least 80% match( except if you never want to meet but play online games with me) and you've understood that its YOUR job to fix racism and not mine and you don't comment or even ask to touch my hair!!!
-if you want to open up a virtual flat share with me via Skype, Google+ or TS
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