37Somerville, United States
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My self-summary
I've been told I'm a rare breed. I tend to agree. I was the black sheep of the family, and was often the black sheep of my friends. I'm generally confident around strangers, but can sometimes be shy if I like someone. I'm very easy to approach, and can easily keep a conversation rolling along once started. I genuinely like people, and find myself being well liked, even by people who don't like anybody. I'm open and honest and tend to be brash when I'm comfortable. I have a twisted sense of humor, and am very sarcastic. I've been told I have an evil sounding laugh. I'm very much into the macabre.
I've been in a couple of relationships, but I've never really dated that much. I've never really felt the need to as I am an independent person. I would rather be single than with someone I don't want to be with. I need my time alone, and I need for those I'm seeing to respect that fact. I'm pretty hard boiled, so I don't get shocked or offended easily. Some perceive this as aloofness, but it's not. Be assured, if I'm with you, I'm there because I want to be. I don't do anything I don't want to, and don't expect anyone else to either for my sake.
I am very open to flirting and can be extremely flirtatious myself. If a girl is into me, I want her to be up front about it. She doesn't have to play games to get me or keep me interested. She just has to let me know she likes me. I don't want her to make things too easy for me, though. Like any other guy, I enjoy a chase. I need to know you're worth the pursuit.
Art and music are very important to me, so it's important a girl share those interests. I like dancing and am very attracted to dancers. I also can't resist a musician. A girl with paint stained fingers, a bruise from practicing violin, callouses from guitar, or broken skin from dancing point will be particularly attractive to me.
What I’m doing with my life
Writing, drawing, learning how to paint, making music, supporting the music scene, dancing
I’m really good at
I'm one of those people others get comfortable around real fast. People confide in me and they listen to me. I can motivate them, calm them down, make them laugh and help get their guard down. And if I'm in the mood, I can charm the pants off anyone.
The first things people usually notice about me
Not sure. I never asked.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've got a passion for '80's cheese and Synthwave (hence the stupid profile name). I like sci-fi for most things. William Gibson is my favorite writer so far. Cyberpunk is always fun. I like Anne Rice, but I have to be in the mood. Usually, if I'm reading, it's something on history. I don't really watch tv that much, but I really enjoyed Rome, Deadwood, and Game of Thrones. I like, The Venture Brothers, Arthur, Tales from the Crypt, and MST3K. I also like the History Channel when there's history on. I like documentaries on most things, but especially ancient and medieval history. The music I gravitate toward most is metal. Most of the time, I prefer to listen to classical music. Chopin is my current favorite. I do like some electronic music, like Daft Punk and NIN. I love to dance to goth music, but don't really listen to it outside the club, except for Rasputina.
Six things I could never do without
Variety, weirdness, adrenaline, adversity, art, my friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
It depends on what project I'm working on or what I'm learning about at the time.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't get out much, so I'm usually doing something artistic or creative, or I might be up talking to my roomate all night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You'll find out when you get to know me better.
You should message me if
Don't hesitate to message me if:
You want to go out dancing
If you just want to have some fun.
If you are interested, don't be afraid to let me know. I'll take it from there.
The two of us