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My self-summary
I am a super cool, super sexy chick with things to do. I am a nerdy girl with a husband (Kaptian), looking for other nerdy couples or single ladies (sorry, fellas - our dance card is full in this regard) for nerdy fun times first, and sexy times which might come second.

I enjoy lectures, philosophizing, arcade-ing, cooking (and subsequent eating), game nights and winning. I enjoy going out of town for conventions. During the summer, I like day hikes down the gorge that result in delicious food and beer in Hood River, or camping trips to one of the hundred places within a few hours from here. I like meeting up with people who know more than me on different topics (theoretical physics, philosophy, economics, theism, biological anthropology, astronomy, skepticism) and being immersed in conversation.

My degree is in graphic design, but I work in social work so go figure. My other academic interests included political science/theory, journalism and anthropology.

I generally feel a little older than my contemporaries - career, financial budget, kids, the house, a couple cats, retirement plans. All this means scheduling can take some time, but if something is just right, I make time.
What I’m doing with my life
I invest my daytime life in social work, and nighttime in family. We have kids, but due to the Brady Bunch style of our family, we have no-kids every other weekend.

When we have no kids, we like to go out to the pub with friends, see interesting movies, check out atheist/skeptic meetups, or go for weekend trips out of town.
I’m really good at
Expressing my creativity through organization (I have such loves for labels and spreadsheets.) Providing MST3K-style commentary on real life.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am the Christina Hendricks of the bunch? I thought it might be my giant brains, but it is apparently my bust-to-waist-to-hips-to-redhead ratio that really sets me apart. Mostly my brain, I'm assured.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is the tedious part of profiles that I always find myself skipping over because I don't necessarily think that the TV shows or food you like is going to affect whether I might want to hang out with you.

On the topic of food, or books, or music, I am most attracted to a 'love for the craft'. If they have the loves, I probably have the loves for it.
Six things I could never do without
Independence, critical thought, science, challenging points of view, pinball and weekends out of town.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All of the things, and how those things counter everything we've ever thought about ourselves. Why I can't be less of an anti-theist. Compartmentalism of the human brain. How morality is driven by human nature and evolution without the need for religion or spirituality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Half of the time I'm at home with the kids, and half of the other times I am out with my partner enjoying strippers, or craft brews, or lectures, or video games. My interests are varied.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
For this purpose?

So, I suppose I ought to admit to having, what I would hope, is a modern idea of swinging, for lack of a better term (*eeww, swingers*). I want to have awesome, intellectually stimulating company with you and your mate, and then fuck both of you while still within what we define as a monogamous relationship.

We are very much an into-each-other couple and don't consider ourselves polyamorous, as we aren't interested in romantic relationships with other people. We do, however, love hanging out with other sexy, nerdy people with the possibility of things becoming even sexier later on. Also, we are looking for a hetero couple (sorry!).

However, just other couple friends is awesome, too.

'Monogamous, 'polyamorous', 'swinging', etc are all super subjective terms ("how can you be monogamous if you fuck other people - won't somebody think of the children?!"), so further communication of boundaries and definitions are always welcome, and indeed necessary should things progress in that way.

Also, if you're a dude with long hair, that's probably a dealbreaker. I just can't get over it.
You should message me if
You're interested in having fun-time friends with a couple that could evolve into sexy-time friends with alternate sexing and friending.

You and your partner are hot, smart, fun, nerdy, and have well defined boundaries around the ways you might be interested in expanding your relationship.

You are confident, stable and sex-positive.
The two of us