Despite the overwhelming passion people on this site have for the outdoors, I only like it as a friend. I enjoy hiking and going for walks and discovering new places, but I'm a nerdy style indoor kid at heart. I like staying in and watching a movie or playing a game, video or otherwise. I also like to go out and find amazing food and drinks.
I'm INFJ, which boils down to, I'm shy but I'm willing to put myself out there when I want something. It also means that I like people who put in the same kind of effort I put into things. That being said, this place is probably the worst place to find out who I am, just talk to me or something.
I have a strong fondness for people who want to keep growing. A little while ago I ran into someone from high school. After talking and a few drinks I started to notice how they hadn't changed. I don't want to be that person and I want to be around people who feel the same.
I'm ethnically non-monogamous and, the people I date know I am on here and fully consent to me dating other people. If you would like to talk about the details I would be happy to I would just prefer to have that conversation in private.
With no better way to say this, some of the closest and best friends in my life have been people who do not conform to hetero-normative gender and sexual identity. I've no desire to be with people who don't respect everyone for who they are. I might be a straight white male but that doesn't mean I'm a closed minded jerk.
I also working on personal fitness and try to exercise at least 4 days a week. Turns out diet and exercise can make you feel like a whole new person. Who knew?
I'm the expert at finding that thing you can't find because you misplaced it. Trust me, I know where it is.
Noticing people in shows who were on other shows and films.
After people get past me being tall, people notice my eyes. The words, kind and soulful get thrown around. They also change colors.
TV: Dr. Who, Adventure Time, Mad Men, Sherlock, Community, Steven Universe, Parks and Recreation, Red Dwarf, Archer, Downton Abbey, whatever else is on Netflix
Electric Six, Mirah, Arctic Monkeys, The Decemberists, The Pillows, Jonathan Coulton, MC Frontalot, Ben Folds (and Five), Passion Pit, Crystal Castles, Dandy Warhols, Foster the People, They Might be Giants, anything composed by Yoko Kanno, Queen, Neutral Milk Hotel, Go Gol Bordello, Bird and the Bee, the Submarines.
Books: Discworld, anything by Neal Gaiman or Christopher More, anything by Sarah Vowell or David Sedaris, World War Z, Laurel K. Hamilton's Anita Blake series (maybe I should put that in the private things I'm willing to admit list?) John Dies at the End.
Comic books: Fables, Scott Snyder's run on Batman, Chew, Locke and Key, Saga, (the list goes on forever) There's also a very long list of manga as well.
Movies: Fight Club, Up in the Air, The Prestige, Shaun of the Dead, All the works of Wes Anderson (I swear I'm not total a hipster) Gremlins (second one may be better than the first, wanna fight about it?), Crank 2: High Voltage, Wristcutters, Wet Hot American Summer, Black Dynamite. Anything by John Waters
Food: Sushi, Pho, Mango and sticky rice, Indian,
The feeling of personal growth, or "huh does this make me an adult now?"
An outlet for my sense of humor
Being content with the fact that I know all the facts that will never let me win Jeopardy
Time travel, and what shenanigans I would get up to if I could travel in time.
Comic book/writing ideas.
What should I watch on netflix now?
First Fridays are reserved for the Save Your Soul party down at the Lithuanian Hall so if you want to see me dance like I don't care you can find me there.
I'm allergic to metal (so now you know how to assassinate me)
I have a really big distaste for doing things alone because I want to share my experiences with other people.
I'm fet, poly, and kink friendly, I'm just too afraid of being seen as creepy to say this anywhere else. (ask me about my sweet fetlife profile!)
You should message me if you like playing board games, card games, games in general.
You want to go to Rennfest with someone cool, well you know Rennfests cool, i.e. the best kind of cool.
If you want to help me in my desire to make a comic book, I can't draw and need an artist.
If you read all that I owe you a cookie or a drink or something.
Because I dare you to.