Online dating as well as real dating certainly isn't the easiest thing in the world. I have done it for a while without that much luck. However I have learned that the best policy when dealing with any kind of relationships are true honesty right from the start, which is why I am not going to hold back, simply to put all the cards on the table and perhaps even being a bit personal.
I'm born and raised in Denmark, came to the US in my Early/Mid 20's Studied acting/filmmaking like a lot of other people you might know around here. I worked for a few years as an Actor/Stuntman and a Fitness model. It all might sound very exotic and glamorous, but with barely any income while getting older, suddenly some of the fun starts to fade.
I have no regrets at all, great memories and a time I will always remember and treasure.
I would describe myself as a dreamer in my 20's and more of a realist in my 30's.
Before you fall asleep, let's talk about love!!!!! - Isn't that what you wanna hear anyway? lol
I'm looking for a nice, good girl, definitely grounded. Who is very secure (No drama please) who knows what she wants out of life. Someone who is serious about a real deep and meaningful relationship. - Who at some point is interested in settling down and hopefully start a family when the time is right. - That being said! Also realize that it takes time to get to know someone, so don't tell me on the first date that you have a 1-year plan, which is to find a husband, getting pregnant and buying a house in the suburbs. - We men have a word for that "PRESSURE"
Back in Denmark, I was in the military for a while, but also worked with handicapped and mentally disturbed children.
When I finally arrived in the US which was a dream of mine since the age of 15! I had no papers, no Social Security number, no place to live, no job, didn't know anybody and had less than $200 in my pockets. - Only a tourist visa that was good for 90 days, in which I was not allowed to work. "Welcome to America, and good luck kid"
While in school (Years ago) I lived and worked for a while at a hostel on Hollywood blvd. I also started working as a window cleaner for $5 an hour. Not much, but enough to survive, and eventually I started getting some of my own accounts and started my own little window cleaning business while still pursuing the dream in Hollywood.
One reason I got out of the acting thing, was the fact that I got tired of working with and for other people, constantly having to please people, kissing booty so to say and not really being myself. I realized that working for myself was the ultimate answer that I was looking for.
I already had knowledge and experience with a squeegee and knew that there was a huge potential marked out there in the glass business. A very important lesson I learned, was "It's not always about what you want in life, it's also about finding a job where there is a big demand and trying to fill that" - For a long time while "Living the dream" AKA. Pursuing a career in acting, I had to go to bed hungry. - Everything has it's price in this world.
Since then I have expanded my business, and today I/We (Have a crew under my belt now) service over 100 commercial accounts on a regular basis, and plenty of residential work as well, mostly for upscale clientele in West Hollywood and the Beverly Hills area. I have half a dozen stores on Rodeo Drive alone, working with names and businesses that you girls can't wait to shop in. ;)
Anyway, it's quite rewarding working for yourself, but I have also put a lot of time in to it. "The world meets nobody halfway"
I still have a long way to go, no doubt!
In fact I might as well share my "Master-plan" with you! I'm planning on more expansion, so that I in maybe 5-7 years from now, can work just part time, while still having a nice income. That way, I can spend my time in this life on What/Who really matters to me. - Doing things that I WANT do, not what I HAVE to do. - What do you think, great plan huh? lol
If you are looking for a slick lawyer or an agent type of a guy, perhaps a man who wears a suit to work, then I'm not your man! ...Well I do look pretty sharp in a suit if I may say. Hahaha
However here's a sad fact! I was on Match for a while, and after telling women in emails what I did for a living, I would not hear back from %50 of them. Unfortunately Window cleaning was not "Cool" enough for them.
My question to you is "Ask yourself, if you are looking for a man to take care of you financially? Or are you looking for love?" It's usually one of those two! Sad but true!!!
Prepare myself for the future, while still trying to enjoy the moment as well.
- I'm a very positive individual.
- Optimistic, but realistic at the same time.
- Being goal oriented in regards to all aspects of life.
- My Nordic look and blue eyes.
- That I seem like a nice, respectful and down to earth kind of guy.
- My physical appearance, yet surprised that I'm calm, and actually have a brain. lol
- A little shyness at first, especially around a cute girl. ;)
I love action movies, but a sweet love story can also bring out the tears in me. Hehe
2 and a half men (With Charlie Sheen) Criminal Minds, The new Dallas. - But don't tell anyone.
Sushi! Italian, and tons of junk and ice cream. lol
2, My family.
3, The beach!
4, A nice dinner.
5, Exercising at the gym.
6, Other types of exercises that we probably should not discuss at this point. ;)
...Personally I think it looks more like Jennifer Lopez cartoon booty. lol Oh well, as long as it's not hanging around my ankles, then I'm happy.
Oh yeah, almost forgot! I was once raped by a gorgeous Brazilian girl in a restroom in a gay club in Miami! LMAO
3 things though!!! 1) NO! I'm not gay! 2) Yes, maybe I could have resisted more ;) and 3) I was young at the time! - Since then I have turned in to a little angel. In other words, you will be safe around me ...Or sort of. ;)
Oh yeah, I also added a shirtless picture that you can see in my photos (The typical bathroom picture, taken with my Iphone, while wearing silly Spiderman lookalike underwear) Mostly cause some of you girls hate when guys take a shirtless picture like that. - I just want to find out if you have a sense of humor or not. - Hey at least I don't have my dirty laundry in the background or a dog sticking his head in the picture just to see what daddy is up to. LMAO
-Don't believe when this silly site tells you that you are only %10 match with a male profile that you are looking at! It amazes me so many women actually pay attention to that. (Whatever happened to "Don't believe in everything you read") Listen to your heart and your judgment and not a stupid computer. To really get that answer, you have to sit down in person to find out.
- DON'T be one of those "Typical LA girls" Or divas, that think the whole world evolves around you. - Realize that a relationship is 50/50 not 90/10