I am in a polyamorous relationship with a fabulous woman. Her OKCupid screen name is Oskarblu27. If this "lifestyle" (as they say) is not your cup of tea, I understand.
I am here looking for a relationship but am also open to new friends. This site seems to attract a quirkier population (like me). I am not a big fan of the poly term "secondary" because it implies a rigid hierarchy...but that being said I do have a primary relationship. This doesn't mean I will treat you as second best. I am a romantic at heart and proud of it.
I have a lot of hobbies and interests. Most recently I have been training for my first Sprint Triathlon. It has been quite the experience so far and can't wait for race day! Wish me luck. I hope to keep up the exercising after the event and may look to get into more biking. When I am not training I love to travel and will find any excuse to do so (both domestically and internationally). I also love music, especially going to see/hear live music. This was the first year in many that I had to miss UMS and I was bummed. For creative hobbies I paint murals, make metal jewelry/chainmail and sort of play guitar lol. I also LOVE sports and poker. Oh yeah, and like many Coloradans I do enjoy the outdoors...camping, hiking, etc.
My sense of humor tends to be on the dry and sarcastic side, though usually not caustic or mean spirited. I am honest, open and willing to share more about myself.
About you: You are intelligent and have a great sense of humor. Obviously you need to be ok with my relationship status. I am not looking to replace my gf. I am looking for an additional meaningful relationship. You enjoy a day of sitting in the sun watching baseball, followed by a night of fine dining and romance. You like to experiment and try new things. And most of all you appreciate me and what I have to offer.
(Bonus points if you enjoy watching sports and going to games)
p.s. The screen name is because I tend to drop things a lot but I usually catch them before they hit the ground...usually.
Some of the books I really like are Geek Love, Lullaby, Lamb (essentially anything by Christopher Moore), Game of Thrones, Among The Thugs, most things by Bill Bryson. I am also an avid comic collector (yes, I have a definite geeky side to me).
In terms of movies my tastes are pretty varied. When put on the spot I usually say The Usual Suspects is my favorite. I have some guilty pleasures like National Treasure (popcorn flick) and The American President (sappy romance). Ironically I tend to not like Michael Douglas but I love Wonder Boys (the book as well).
Music is another area in which I have a wide range of tastes. I love almost everything the Foo Fighters have ever put out. Other bands I can think of at the moment are: Guster, The Jayhawks, Fitz And The Tantrums, The New Pornographers (thanks Elissa lol), Brandi Carlile, Panic At The Disco and Two Door Cinema Club to name a few. I have an soft spot for musicals and cheesy yacht rock. Music is an important part of my life.
Foods: that's a tough one. I like a huge variety of foods and somehow at the same time can be a pretty picky eater. Some of the highlights include Italian, Indian, Mediterranean, Thai, Chinese, Ethiopian, Mexican (miss California Mexican) and Sushi. Oh yeah...nothin' wrong with good old American grub too.