I am in a polyamorous relationship with a fabulous woman. Her OKCupid screen name is Oskarblu27. If this "lifestyle" (as they say) is not your cup of tea, I understand.
I am also on here looking for new friends. This site seems to attract a quirkier population (like me). In terms of relationships, I tend to be pretty affectionate and like when the person I am with is the same. I am a romantic at heart and proud of it. Holding hands in public is not a mortal sin.
In terms of activities, I am not a thrill seeker or an adrenaline junkie but I do love my motorcycle (and especially enjoy it with someone else). I love to travel and will find any excuse to do so (both domestically and internationally). We just got back from Portugal. I love to explore new locales and am always up for an adventure. I love music, especially going to see/hear live music. For creative hobbies I paint murals, make metal jewelry and sort of play guitar lol. I also LOVE sports and poker (2 of my very few stereotypically "guy" traits).
My sense of humor tends to be on the dry and sarcastic side, though usually not caustic or mean spirited. I am honest, open and willing to share more about myself.
About you: You are intelligent and have a great sense of humor. You care about your appearance, but are not be obsessed by it. You are ok with my current relationship status. You enjoy a day of sitting in the sun watching baseball, followed by a night of fine dining and romance. You like to experiment and try new things (in and out of the bedroom lol). And most of all you appreciate me and what I have to offer.
I am inquisitive, adventurous, and witty
Some of the books I really like are Geek Love, Lullaby, Lamb (essentially anything by Christopher Moore), Game of Thrones, Among The Thugs, most things by Bill Bryson. I am currently reading Sandman by Neil Gaiman.
In terms of movies my tastes are pretty varied. When put on the spot I usually say The Usual Suspects is my favorite. I have some guilty pleasures like National Treasure (popcorn flick) and The American President (sappy romance). Ironically I tend to not like Michael Douglas but I love Wonder Boys.
Music is another area in which I have a wide range of tastes. I love almost everything Muse and the Foo Fighters have ever put out. Other bands I can think of at the moment are: Guster, The Jayhawks, Fitz And The Tantrums, The New Pornographers (thanks Elissa lol), Brandi Carlile, Panic At The Disco, Two Door Cinema Club, MGMT. I have an soft spot for musicals, like some hip-hop, electronica, dance, classical and a tiny tiny bit of country lol. There are a ton of other bands I could list. Music is an important part of my life.
Foods: that's a tough one. I like a huge variety of foods and somehow at the same time can be a pretty picky eater. Some of the highlights include Italian, Indian, Mediterranean, Thai, Chinese, Ethiopian, Mexican (miss California Mexican) and Sushi. Oh yeah...nothin' wrong with good old American grub too.