59 Green Valley, United States
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My self-summary
Things that are really important to me:

Intelligent humor, light-hearted fun, respect, and kindness are what you get from me and what I want from others. Also, I'm not into extremes in anything, including intolerance, and I need to be around common sense and positive energy.

I would say don't bother me if you attract drama in your life, but those who create it, or are deep in it, are usually in denial about it too.

Liars and scammers, go away please. The red flags become more obvious all the time and you are easy to spot.

Hey guys, I know that most people want sex, sooner or later, but is there anybody out there willing to get to know somebody a little before asking about it? I'm just wondering.

If you are hilarious, and like somebody who can hold their own (maybe even known to be a little sassy) and don't mind hanging out with a girl that is not sitting around waiting for someone to marry her, what are you doing tonight or tomorrow? I'm a lot of fun, super easy going, must laugh often, and am interested in hanging out with a similar spirit. I am hoping to find a social, or activity partner, and go from there, or not.

I love nerds, btw.
What I’m doing with my life
I feel like life, in part, is about learning from mistakes (ours and others') and improving all the time, so that's what I'm doing, while laughing about it, always.

I’m getting better at keeping promises I make to myself and practicing the power of positive thinking, always.

I am becoming an expert at ignoring people who think they know what's good for others.

A few years ago I vowed to do what I love for the rest of my life, so now I am a writer.

I stick close to my family because they are fantastic people; open-minded, introspective, entertaining, and in general, a joy to be around. That includes my adult kids who are all awesome, self-sufficient, and also avoid drama!
I’m really good at

Creating humor out of most things

Staying positive


Cutting through bs

Being a muse. I've been known to boldly encourage a smile or a laugh, and I have the ability to inspire a reduction of resistance. It can happen anywhere. It only takes a minute to help a person remember that they have a ton of strength. (I could be a motivational speaker.)
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually the first thing people notice about me is how happy I seem. The next thing they notice is that I don't just seem happy, I really am happy, and I try to keep it that way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like books that help me stay centered or encourage me to be in the moment; Deepak, Wayne, Esther and Jerry, Abraham, Eckhart, Melody, Shad, etc.. (Yeah, we are on a first name basis. lol! Do you know them?) For fun, I like a lot of the same authors the rest of you like, and some older ones, like Sidney Sheldon, and good old Agatha Christie.

I like comedies mostly, and movies with deep meaning, as long as they aren't too sad. Two movies that I came across in the last year that I felt were profound were "The Civilization Of Maxwell Bright" and "Ruby Sparks." Now it's 3. I have to add "The Sessions."

I love The Big Bang Theory. I would date Sheldon as long as he didn't care if I laughed a lot, and I do know that people like that exist.

I appreciate a broad range of music. For instance, I still get a kick out of Frank Sinatra and he gets a kick out of me, and anything since then that's not too dark, I saw Lady GaGa recently, and even more recently, Allen Stone, and I believe there is a lot of fantastic music being made today.

I have enjoyed any cuisine that I have ever been exposed to so far, and still have many I want to try.
The six things I could never do without
On this day, six things I could never do without are


my self-respect

positive thinking


the right pillow

intelligent conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about how happy I am, and the relatively few things that could make life even better.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually having fun, even if I'm home alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The best relationship I have ever had was with a super nerd.

I guess there's no need to put this off:

I'm no animal hater at all, but it's a big plus for me if our date or activity doesn't have to be dictated by a pet's rigid schedule.
You should message me if
Message me if you know what a double entendre is, or if you want to know what is special about the word “facetiously” and you don't say “irregardless.”

Message me if you are an intellectual, don't take yourself too seriously, enjoy becoming better all of the time, and you can't do without ongoing laughter. Message me if you want to be around somebody, but don't have to be, and you are well aware of the difference. Message me if you are not religious, but understand spirituality or like philosophizing, and you are not racist, because you are too smart and tolerant for that.

Message me if you are able and willing to articulate your thoughts.