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My self-summary
Does anyone else feel like this merry-go-round is a little too exhausting? Ready to jump?

Not yet looking for something serious, but would love to make a connection and I'm open to just about anything at this point. 😊 GGG

I really really really can't stand online dating. So swipe right if you're kinda sorta ready to meet in person. I'll tell you anything you want to know. For starters, I'm probably goofier AND serious-er than you. Care to challenge me? I dare ya!

Also, this may be all you really need to know:
What I’m doing with my life
Musician, Singer/Songwriter, Actor, Vice President & Music Director of an independent film company. Manager of AV Services at the Zoo. Father of three kids who do not live with me.
I’m really good at
Music, acting, chatting, dadding, doing two things at once. Connecting to people. Extreme cuddling. Anything to do with my hands.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told by supposedly disinterested third parties that I have nice eyes, hands and smile. :) And I tend to look younger than my years, at least post morning shower. Also I'm 37 feet tall and have a mole the size and shape of the republic of Georgia on my ass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
No limits. Whatever's truly good on more than one level. There's even a whole lotta bad I like. Except pop country music and lazily recorded old standards (I'm talking about you, Rod Stewart!). I LOVE the passion with which people on OKC list dozens of faves. Mine would be in the hundreds and I just don't have the finger power for that!

BUT I've been getting more queries about throwing down some specifics. So here's a cross section in RANDOM ORDER:

Music: REC, U2, Beatles, Femmes, Beasties, Nirvana, Who, Death Grips, Wombats, Horrors, Futureheads, Roots, Cure, Prince, Chicago, Franz Ferdinand, Sea Pinks, Bloc Party, Brubeck, Monk, TMBG, almost anything from NOLA, tons of stuff from Britain & Scotland. Chopin, Schumann, Bach(!), Debussy, Satie, Bartok.

TV: I watch a shiteload of new shows. Let's talk. Dig USA, BBC-A, SYFY!! in general. Admit to CW, Fox (NOT the news channel), the old "big three" networks. PBS, mo' or less. Bootleg stuff from HBO, Showtime, Max (their non-porn original programming is damn good). Of course FX, AMC. Smattering of online programming. It is NOT always sunny in Philly - I should know, I was born & raised there. But AWESOME show! Daily Show, Wilmore, Full Frontal, Colbert, ANYTHING Louis CK. Survivor with my daughter.

Reading: Dickens, Eggers, Murakami, Knife of Never Letting Go, Stephen King, non-fiction, weird shite, lots of magazines, Sunday Times.

Movies: DEALeR (look it up on Amazon Prime! using "dealer feenix" - I dare ya), Clandestine (also on Amazon), Requiem, Lock-Load-Love, Nicky Newark, This End Up, Capra stuff, Spielberg, Scorsese, Peter Weir, Wilder.

Food: Ridiculous question. If it's not moving, I'll try it. If it's moving, give me $500 and I'll try it. Prefer it not to be raw, unless tuna/sushi. Have no dietary restrictions because life is damn short. But Tex-Mex, burgers, pan-Asian, Indian buffet!, good salad, pizza - good and bad, REAL Italian, yes fast food, home cooking - did the Pillsbury Bakeoff once. Way prefer peanut butter cookies over chocolate chip. Only eat dark chocolate because don't even joke.

Multiply all that by 30, and the music by 300, and you've got the picture.
Six things I could never do without
The telebeeseeown
Moving pictures
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Social issues
How to live the fullest life & still take care of those around me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with a friend - dinner and/or a gig, and a bar that's not full of loud obNOXiosos. Or just catching up on TV/movies at home. Beer in moderate quantities is generally involved.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm way more punk than I appear, and I cling to love like a life raft. Other than that - if we click and are into each other for more than three dates, I'll tell you pretty much anything. Except what happened in 1996 😜
You should message me if
*You can decipher one or more of the following acronyms: TMBG, CTA, DIY, STFU, DMSR.
*You're cool with meeting up sooner rather than later. I just wanna see your lovely face in the flesh!
*You love feeling the spark, and the thrill of not knowing where things are going but still loving the ride.
*You know mostly who you are and mostly what you want, and are also cool adjusting when something awesome calls for it.
*Youve been through it, and can laugh at yourself and the world and me and Louis CK in equal quantities.
The two of us